"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I Pursue Her? (3)

DJ McBuster

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I was looking for a co-worker the other day and I started talking with is hb 9. She was seated in a chair and slide over to meet me for absolutley no reason. Her chest was hanging out of her top to by the way and I was looking but I quickly noticed this and rebounded. I told her she had pretty eyes and got the hell out of her office, so she would'nt think I was a drooling idiot. I thought I *ucked up big time, but the next day she wore a shirt that said green eyed hottie and she has been friendly with me ever since. But we really have not even got past the cold phase and she is always so busy at work? So do you think I should pursue her, and how can I get to know her without being pushy?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anomalous

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Getting girls is a mindset of how you carry yourself. If you say the right words but you don't back it up with confidence then you come off as incongruent.

Yes, you should pursue her. Walking out on her in her office was gold because normal guys would have just stayed there hoping to get more and more and more. You took that away from her and left her wondering. No she'll try even harder to get you.


^^^^
 

Skel

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maybe a stupid question but you havent read the bible have you? If you have then you obviously learned and applied nothing from it
 

Anomalous

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Skel said:
maybe a stupid question but you havent read the bible have you? If you have then you obviously learned and applied nothing from it
He obviously as, since he gets "laid every weekend":down:
 
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