"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I Pursue Her? (3)

DJ McBuster

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I was looking for a co-worker the other day and I started talking with is hb 9. She was seated in a chair and slide over to meet me for absolutley no reason. Her chest was hanging out of her top to by the way and I was looking but I quickly noticed this and rebounded. I told her she had pretty eyes and got the hell out of her office, so she would'nt think I was a drooling idiot. I thought I *ucked up big time, but the next day she wore a shirt that said green eyed hottie and she has been friendly with me ever since. But we really have not even got past the cold phase and she is always so busy at work? So do you think I should pursue her, and how can I get to know her without being pushy?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anomalous

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Getting girls is a mindset of how you carry yourself. If you say the right words but you don't back it up with confidence then you come off as incongruent.

Yes, you should pursue her. Walking out on her in her office was gold because normal guys would have just stayed there hoping to get more and more and more. You took that away from her and left her wondering. No she'll try even harder to get you.


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Skel

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maybe a stupid question but you havent read the bible have you? If you have then you obviously learned and applied nothing from it
 

Anomalous

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Skel said:
maybe a stupid question but you havent read the bible have you? If you have then you obviously learned and applied nothing from it
He obviously as, since he gets "laid every weekend":down:
 
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