"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should I pursue her ? (2)

DJ McBuster

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My gay friend told me yesterday this woman I met only once thinks I am super hot. She was only average looking, lets say a hb 6, and I was still with my ex-girlfriend then, but now things are diffrent. I mean I don't need her or want her, but my friend tells me she is very horny and would love to jump all over me. So my question is should I take her out and do her, or pass on her because she does not meet my regular standards....I mean I love *ussy, but I hate females with no backbone and I am getting laid every night all ready, so is worth it to add another silly girl to my collection?

DJ McBuster
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think your just trying to pull off a smoothplayer056/TieDie.

Basically, your trying to brag to us "How pimping you are."

If your getting laid all the time then why ask us this pointless question. You say HB6 I doubt it. People on here raise that just to look good on the internet.....WTF.

Be real. If you were getting laid every weekend your mindset would have been set, thus you wouldn't need our advice about this HB6.
 

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whyshy said:
I think your just trying to pull off a smoothplayer056/TieDie.

Basically, your trying to brag to us "How pimping you are."

If your getting laid all the time then why ask us this pointless question. You say HB6 I doubt it. People on here raise that just to look good on the internet.....WTF.

Be real. If you were getting laid every weekend your mindset would have been set, thus you wouldn't need our advice about this HB6.
In response to this I do not mean to brag, and I have no reason to lie. I just want all the details to be known. I am not desperate but I like women, and I have learned to value more than just looks. Whose to say hb6 is not a wonderful lover, or a total freak in bed. I am merely asking if it is right to lower your standards for an opprotunity that does not present itself everyday. I mean she lusts for me openly as a stranger, I must admit that is intriguing even to a well satisfied man like me...
 

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Don't lower your standards.

Find the 8's-9's who lust after you like this 6 does. If you start hanging with girls of that level, you'll turn off the ones who are "higher up on the food chain" (for lack of a better example).

Why in the heck do you need to ask this question? I wouldn't do it... no way, man.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ McBuster said:
In response to this I do not mean to brag, and I have no reason to lie. I just want all the details to be known. I am not desperate but I like women, and I have learned to value more than just looks. Whose to say hb6 is not a wonderful lover, or a total freak in bed. I am merely asking if it is right to lower your standards for an opprotunity that does not present itself everyday. I mean she lusts for me openly as a stranger, I must admit that is intriguing even to a well satisfied man like me...
Look man, you shouldn't let us make decisions for you. Just because she is a HB6, well like you said she could be great in bed. Follow your heart, it sure wouldn't hurt F Closing her (unless she has STD's or HPB's)
 

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Seems kinda obvious, if you're not attracted to her, don't do it!
 

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well in this case man, seriously do what you effing well like.

if you feel she's worth the bang, then so be it.

if you feel she's "below you" then so be it.

it's really up to you.

cheers to whatever you decide to do. :whistle:
 
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DJ McBuster said:
My gay friend ...
This is where I stopped reading...who could take you serious after those 3 words??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wheelin&dealin

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
Don't lower your standards.

Find the 8's-9's who lust after you like this 6 does. If you start hanging with girls of that level, you'll turn off the ones who are "higher up on the food chain" (for lack of a better example).
I tend to always follow this line of thought. However... if you're bored on a tuesday night.. what the hell.. call her up.
 

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My question is, do you trust your gay friend? People sometimes play these games.
 
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