Should I "protect" her?

[Mr_Schlong]

Hi,

I'm in a happy LTR for six months now.
I'm the dominant one, but my girl keeps ****testing me from time to time with some feminist bull****. She likes to see herself as an independent women, but most of the time she can't hold her frame and gets the good girl if I give her a little resistance.

So, everythings basically fine.

Today, she told me a story whith happened to her at work:
She wore a pair of tights, the ones with a little more class, very decent.
(She works in sales, btw).

A guy called her at her workplace, and said he had seen her right before, and gave her a compliment about her tights.
Then he asked if he could buy them.

My girlfriend was very surprised, and couldn't respond accordingly, so she just said no.

Then the guy wanted to have coffee with her, with she declined.


5 min. later my girlfriend called me to tell the story.
I laughed my ass of, cause I thought it was really freaky funny.

Now my girlfriend is very disappointed.
She told me that her dad, which is italian, would, if beeing her boyfriend, kill that guy. And she expects me to respond in the same way. Ok, thats hypothatical, cause she hasn't even seen the guy, but I think it is the reaction she is missing.

I still think it is a pretty funny story, and I told her the guy was surely a freak, but I can understand that he would have wanted to have a date with such a hot little lady.


I'm very interested in your opinion about that!

 

[daring wraith]

Hi Mr. Schlong, (something i never thought i'd ever say or type)

I'd laugh it off and forget about it, my girlfriends a lap dancer, you should hear some of the stuff/requests she gets asked LOL.
Thing is, how are you going to find the guy and even if you could, your girlfriend wants you to kill him? Shes going to make you go up to him and say, "Sir, i demand satisfaction" or something of the like?
I think shes overreacting in the typical way women do. Besides she probably using this as way of getting attention. Just buy her a new pair of shoes and all will be fine,forgiven and forgotten.

Regards,

Adrian. esq

P.S. Can i buy her tights? LOL

 

[Bible_Belt]

The male baboon will spend his entire life chasing away the competing males who are interested in his females. Don't be a baboon.

 

[TheRealSupreme]

Well this obviously was a test and you failed it. This type of female with a strong macho father who made her feel protected her entire life needs a man who will make her feel the same otherwise she will lose confidence in her man.

It's not about you bro it's about her deep need inside to feel the presence of a strong male in her life who is like her Daddy.

As for the guy asking about the tights he was probably one of the guys within the community. A PUA. Remember that silly crap about complimenting a woman on her shoes or some other article of clothing and asking where she got it?

This idiot just took it too far into creeps-ville. He probably wanted to buy them to smell the crotch or some other super nerdy creepy thing.

 

[Alle_Gory]

This type of female with a strong macho father who made her feel protected her entire life needs a man who will make her feel the same otherwise she will lose confidence in her man.

Oh ****. I've falied this one a few times before. When this girl I was seeing was talking about 'some stalker' that kept phoning her. I just brushed it off as her just wanting extra attention.

So what do you do in this situation? It would be retarded to pick a fight with some chump because your girl wants you to. And the situation is over, the guy left.

 

[Smack]

The male baboon will spend his entire life chasing away the competing males who are interested in his females. Don't be a baboon.

lol

Exactly. To me, this sounds like one big test: she wants you to beat that guy up or threaten him to see if you will obey her orders. Don't do it.

 

[slickaz]

well last time anything like that happened.

i laughed at first coz the girl was getting calls and texts from some guy saying, if she kept being rude to him he nor anyone else would sleep with her.ever.

so i laughed it off when i heard it, and said, yeh noone else is gonna sleep with you but me..they just reaffirming that to you baby.

and she got mad that i wasnt being protective.
so i was like ok, you think im being a wuss by not making moves..

so i called up my friend who works at the mobile company, asked him to hook me up with the details of that number...
and i brought back the details back to her and said ok, now i know his name, where his mum lives and what he does for a living..do you want me to have him killed? or just legs broken?
she dropped nuts like O MY GOSH! HOW DID YOU FIND THIS!! DO YOU WORK FOR THE AGENCY or something...
im like..just answer the question..
she: no baby, im sorry i ever said you were a wuss..im really sorry i know you'll protect me..blah blah blah.

i dont know if thats the right thing to do but she never questioned me again, but she did tell me about the guys that bothered her and id usually brush it off..

 

[Mr_Schlong]

Originally Posted by Bible_Belt
The male baboon will spend his entire life chasing away the competing males who are interested in his females. Don't be a baboon.

lol

Exactly. To me, this sounds like one big test: she wants you to beat that guy up or threaten him to see if you will obey her orders. Don't do it.

Thanks guys. I just laughed it off, cause I still think it's pretty funny.
Now, 3 days later she still plays some drama, but I don't care.


@ Adrian: How much would you pay?
And I'd have to send it via airmail. Otherwise the special taste might pass away during the transport..

 

[Ganondorf]

Lol the ladies like alittle Jealousy here and there, but don't over do it

even though i'm not jealous, i sometimes act alittle bit protective to give my gf the "Wow my man really wants me feel" lol you should see smile she gets from it

For example

Gf: LOL Baby this game wont leave me alone at work. he keeps asking me out! i gotta tell you what he said
Me: Lol oh really. I can't blame him as beautiful as you are
Gf: You're not mad?
Me: Lol no, why would i be mad at him for tryin?? But next time he better stay away from my Girl ;D
Gf: Lol oh WOW, really?

lol have fun with it


But Protecting" her? The only way you should ever protect her from anything is if she at risk for rape, to which you should call the cops

What are you protecting her from? Male attention? Lol some females get a rush from men fighting over them, but don't take it too seriously.

it goes both ways. acting too aloof with make her feel like you don't really care about being with her.

I guess they feel like a man should be able to claim his woman lol