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Should i practice my approaches on large chicks?

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Originally posted by johnnyhero79
Hey guys do you think its safe for a guy to practice your approaches on large chicks? You so you wont be shy when you do it on the sexy ones? What do you think?:confused:
should chicks practice approaches on really dumb guys? get them to buy them drinks in the bar, so later when a hot one comes up , they will be ready for the big leagues??

dude, both of these things are done everyday and they are still very wrong.
 

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Please don't practice on fat girls!

If you get shut down you will feel like crap (-10 for confidence)! At least if a hot girl shoots you down you can still be happy because you gathered up the stones to try (+1 for your confidence).
 

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Remember that "large" women have preferences too (just like any other woman). Imagine how you'd feel getting rejected by someone you felt wasn't in your league? This doesn't just apply to big girls either. There are plenty of men who wouldn't mind having a big woman, so don't mistakenly believe that it's going to be easy because you think they have less options.

However, "grotesquely" fat might be an exception (I guess that's subjective though).
 

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No, you shouldn't.

Your degree of success with fat women doesn't necessarily provide an accurate gauge as to your effectiveness with Hot chics.

I could be holding a cheeseburger, talking to a fat girl, and she'll be all over me, just eyeballing my burger; however, that probably wouldn't work with a hot, 115-lb chic, so practice with the type of women that closely resembles your primary target.
 

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Originally posted by seanchai
You should practice receiving blow jobs from them as well, in my opinion. Everything they say about fat chicks and BJs is true.
Oh how do you know this?? :eek:
 

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Originally posted by seanchai
You should practice receiving blow jobs from them as well, in my opinion. Everything they say about fat chicks and BJs is true.
seanchai, knows what he' talking about here.
 

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Originally posted by rsxy
Please don't practice on fat girls!

If you get shut down you will feel like crap (-10 for confidence)! At least if a hot girl shoots you down you can still be happy because you gathered up the stones to try (+1 for your confidence).
Haha whoa, fvcking fatties is like Dungeons and Dragons..
 
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Originally posted by johnnyhero79
Hey guys do you think its safe for a guy to practice your approaches on large chicks? You so you wont be shy when you do it on the sexy ones? What do you think?:confused:

:crackup:
 

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No don't practice hunting hippo if you plan to hunt lions

You are just training yourself to hunt hippos

You are learning the movements and migration patterns of hippos

Hot women are a different animal to fat women


would a boxer train to fight Ali the same as he would train to fight Tyson

NO

you train for the fight you are going to take

and some tough love for you

you are just making excuses and taking the easy road because you know its a sure bet

grow some balls and swing for the fence

you may strike out but you will be living


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From personal exprience, I would say no. I have chatted up these 6-7s quite a lot in past month and have had no problems approaching and leading the conversations. But, that's not what I wanted. I only did it because I thought it would help me approach more beautiful girls. I was wrong, atleast for me it didnt work. Seems like you only get past your anxiety if you approach those girls you feel anxious, suprsingly :rolleyes:
 

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How come ones you talk to a fat chicks they want to keep hold on to you 4 ever?? :confused: :down:
 

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How come ones you talk to a fat chicks they want to keep hold on to you 4 ever??
It's extremely difficult to ingest an entire cow and have a telephone conversation simultaneously.

EDIT: never mind. Your grammar sucks.
 

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Originally posted by Unregistered
It's extremely difficult to ingest an entire cow and have a telephone conversation simultaneously.

EDIT: never mind. Your grammar sucks.
LOL thanks :woo:
 

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Originally posted by johnnyhero79
Hey guys do you think its safe for a guy to practice your approaches on large chicks?
Yeah, you can bounce your game off of them.... *snicker* :p

Hey, it had to be said...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Why would you even have any initiative to talk to fat chicks?
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Why would you even have any initiative to talk to fat chicks?
Having absolutely nothing to loose and a ton to gain! :p
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Having absolutely nothing to loose and a ton to gain! :p
That way. If they dont talk to me..then its ok because fat chicks are nasty. I would never date a fat chick.. eeeew:down:
 

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nah playboy dont do that. one thing about fat chicks, they get oneitis instantly. then theyll be pressuring u into going out with them.

practice on average chicks. i understand why u might be a lil fearful to approach hotties. they can humble u with a rejection. then turn u into a woman hater.

not all gorgeous woman are beatches.
 

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Originally posted by sexualchocolate
nah playboy dont do that. one thing about fat chicks, they get oneitis instantly. then theyll be pressuring u into going out with them.


LOL :crackup:
 

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