"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I post this on my page?

zack77766

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I got a facebook and am single (i didnt put the latter up). I want to put up: if you want to know about me you got be be either my friend or my girl. by the way life is short and i resolve to find a girl this year

i sense neediness in this. but i want to let some of the girls on my fb to know im available...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Plec07

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Just set your status to single. Sorted. Don't try to overcomplicate things.
 

Kamikazi1231

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Yea just put your status as single. If there are some girls on fb you want to know you're available just talk to them personally
 
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