"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I or shouldnt I?

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yankees13

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Going out tommorow with this girl i asked couple of weeks ago in school.. We have talked recently through IM's..When i first meet her at school i acted normally with her like a gentleman.. But later on when i asked her out, and she didnt keep the date (lol she really messed up her hair, had to wear hat for 2 weeks) i acted like a ******* NOT because i was bitter or anything just because i felt messin with her because she didnt keep the date..

And right now she has been saying that i was a gentleman at beginning when i first started talking to her, but then i turned mean to a *******.. Question is when i go out with her tommorow should i give her (1) rose kind of like "apology" thing for giving her the wrong impression....

Or just forget it and go on a date like nothing happened?
 

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Knicknack

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if you don't ever want to date this girl again, give her the rose. hell, go spend $100 on stupid roses and give her 12 of them. she'll LOVE you so much after that. BS..........

quit analyzing her so much. use c+f on her as much as you want. she probably likes you being mysterious and not knowing how you may treat her.

i'm going to go out on a limb here and say this "relationship" has ended before it has began. i hope you can prove me wrong.
 
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Don't give her a rose. Pretend like nothing happened. If you act all guilty about it, that's how she'll take it.
 
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Never give a girl a gift or flowers on a first or second date.

Heard this from a girl.

Both the apology and the rose giving are bad ideas. I don't see any "special case" provisions here, either.
 
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I would say, be like a pendulum. It swung one way, and back to the other way, and now let it swing back to the "gentleman" side, to keep her guessing. Women love to try and figure guys out.
But, i agree, don't say anything about it, or give her a gift. But, be prepared: she will probably ask you, or make a comment again about why you were nice, and then were a jerk. Try to mentally rehearse a smooth comeback if she asks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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