Should I? Or Shouldn't I?

[bcm87]

G'day,

I'm posting here basically looking for a bit of a confidence boost and maybe an answer or two. I worked with this girl for about a year in a part time job, we got to know each other, exchanged numbers, but we never really hung out. I have always wanted a relationship with her but I wouldn't let myself go for it because we worked together. Now I no longer work there and I'm pretty keen on having a LTR with her. I just have a few problems with myself. My self-confidence is pretty poor and I've never been good at getting into and/or keeping a LTR. I have no problems picking up out at a club, hook up with a random and never see them again. But I just down right suck at relationships. My brother (whom also worked, and still does at the same place) is good friends with her. He tells me that she likes me yadda yadda but he has told me some bull**** like that in the past.

Basically, I'm very tempted to call her up and organise a date. But I'm also warry about screwing up any chances I may have with her. Should I just stop being a p*ssy and call her up and just dive right into it?

Any help is appreciated guys, cheers.


*Edit* - I thought I should also add that we have both recently finished school and are moving onto further education/full time jobs.

 

[Docs]

You won't get confident without trying, so call her up and give it a shot
The worst the ho could say is no!

 

[djweses89]

yea man if you worked wit her for a year then there should be no shyness should feel confitable talking to her on the phone so just call her up tell her your gunna pick her up and take her out to eat or something like that. but make sure you make sure she knows its more than just a friendly thing when you go where ever your goin wit her. So it doesnt turn into a friendship type of relationship.