I`ve just moved in an apartmentcomplex with two girls and another guy. I flirted with one of the girls and asked her out. She didn`t show up and I later found out that she was in love with another guy who didn`t like her back. Two weeks later she flirted with me, but I turned her down because I didn`t wanted to her rebound. She was then pissed and didn`t want to talk to me. Two weeks later I asked her to see a movie, she turned me down but flirted with me later. She seemed surprised, but lucky after she said no. Now some time has passed and I find myself still very much attracted to here. But we are quite different personalities, she childish and loud. I`m more calm and cool. She seem to be having a selfesteem problem and is insecure. Should I date her or move on?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
should I, or should I not?
- Thread starter Stan24
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