should I, or should I not?

[Stan24]

I`ve just moved in an apartmentcomplex with two girls and another guy. I flirted with one of the girls and asked her out. She didn`t show up and I later found out that she was in love with another guy who didn`t like her back. Two weeks later she flirted with me, but I turned her down because I didn`t wanted to her rebound. She was then pissed and didn`t want to talk to me. Two weeks later I asked her to see a movie, she turned me down but flirted with me later. She seemed surprised, but lucky after she said no. Now some time has passed and I find myself still very much attracted to here. But we are quite different personalities, she childish and loud. I`m more calm and cool. She seem to be having a selfesteem problem and is insecure. Should I date her or move on?

 

[f283000]

You really shouldn't be asking people this we can't be making your decisions for you. That girl is a flake. First thing you need to do is read The 2 Strikes Rule to get some logic into your brain. Then decide if you want to give her 1 more chance (I would delete her number and not answer her calls). I dealt with girls like these and they are exactly what the 2 strikes rule is helping you avoid. It is a big leak in your game to be pursuing such a girl. Don't be surprised if it takes a long time to even get on the 1st date with her (if ever). She is not interested in you sorry but if you want to keep pursuing her it's your decision.

 

[Stan24]

Thanks, I will follow your advice. English is not my native tongue, so I`m wondering what a flake is?

 

[DJ Miquelo]

A flake is the term for a female who says they will go and do something with you but when it comes down to it, they cancel or dont show up.