1st time I meet her: she's late.
2nd time I meet her: I'm about 30mins. to an hour late. Got lost.
3rd time: she's late again.
4th time: she brings other girls with her, & I was 30 mins. ++ late. Another girl(on the streets) was running after her dog while holding her other dog. So I offered to walk her dogs home w/ her. Anyway, I was the only guy with 6 girls. Ok. Maybe this was a good thing.
But I was only interested in spending alone time with her.
I've probably asked her out twice. The other times... she's initiated it but keeps rescheduling... at least 2x. And she keeps asking me to meet up with her, but I've usually declined in the past. Had things going on, & she was always late. I didn't feel like making time for her. So we lost contact after that. Now she's saying she's single, wanting a relationship and asked if I was dating anyone. But she also asked if I knew anyone "looking" and to send them her way. I'm not sure if she was kidding or not. Truth is I like this girl, but I don't want to date her if she's just in it for the relationship and not me. I've always suspected low interest from her or she's just using me to hook up w/ the next best guy or something.
There are times when she's just showing all signs of affection and then she goes cold and disappears! I don't get it. Most of the time, I feel really unimportant to this girl and am not her first choice. You guys think my instincts are right on this one?
2nd time I meet her: I'm about 30mins. to an hour late. Got lost.
3rd time: she's late again.
4th time: she brings other girls with her, & I was 30 mins. ++ late. Another girl(on the streets) was running after her dog while holding her other dog. So I offered to walk her dogs home w/ her. Anyway, I was the only guy with 6 girls. Ok. Maybe this was a good thing.
But I was only interested in spending alone time with her.I've probably asked her out twice. The other times... she's initiated it but keeps rescheduling... at least 2x. And she keeps asking me to meet up with her, but I've usually declined in the past. Had things going on, & she was always late. I didn't feel like making time for her. So we lost contact after that. Now she's saying she's single, wanting a relationship and asked if I was dating anyone. But she also asked if I knew anyone "looking" and to send them her way. I'm not sure if she was kidding or not. Truth is I like this girl, but I don't want to date her if she's just in it for the relationship and not me. I've always suspected low interest from her or she's just using me to hook up w/ the next best guy or something.
There are times when she's just showing all signs of affection and then she goes cold and disappears! I don't get it. Most of the time, I feel really unimportant to this girl and am not her first choice. You guys think my instincts are right on this one?