"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Should I next this chick?

baurman

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So this girl that I've been talking too and trying to hook up with, got her number, etc. Talk to her on the phone for 5 minutes each time. She text messaged me while she was at work when she couldn't answer the phone and said that she just wanted to be friends in which I responded saying "thanks but i already have enough friends" and she responded saying "what are you implying?" and I just left it at that. When I saw her at work about a week later I still flirt with her and all and about a week later I asked her "So when are we going to do something? When's a good time for you?" because she is always busy, she works 2 jobs and goes to school. She tells me "You were so rude to me... I told you I want to be friends and you completely shut me out.." and I say "See that's why I hate text messages, I was just kidding. I just wanna be friends too, you're not my type anyway." and she's like "Whaat..." so then I asked her again "When's a good time for you?" a nd she says This week she is super busy working a job from 8:30 - 5:00PM and 6:00 - 9:00PM and then g oing to school from 12:00 - 6PM.


I called her on the phone tonight and I told her "I need to ask you something... BE HONEST..." and she's like what... and I just asked her if she filed a complaint on me for harassing her because my manager told me that and she says "What!! NO!! I would NEVER do that!!.. I saw you 2 talking and I was wonderin what it was about but I never would do that!" then all of a sudden she says "Can I call you back? I'm like in a deep conversation on the other line" and I say "Ok you can talk to your boyfriend as long as you want..." and she chuckled, and we both ended the call.

All in all, should I next this chick or keep messing with her? I don't want a relationship with her, I just want to fvck her. I believe I have a chance because my co-workers told me how she is such a stuck up girl and thinks she's the sh!t... but when she's dealing with me, I don't put her on a pedastal and even though she is like a HB9, I treat her as if she's absolutely nothing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zerocelcius

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I think you have already been nexted! The first time she said LJBF.

You should have dropped it right than!


Just a side note: Don't mess with coworkers. UNLESS YOU JUST HAVE TOO! Otherwise stay away from them. Don't $hit in your own back yard. Somebody on here gave me that advice and it was one of the best pieces of advice I received to this day.
 

baurman

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I agree with you. But I'm not working at that job much longer, which is why I'm pursuing it. Even if she LJBF me, doesn't mean that I still don't have a chance to fvck her once. I don't want a relationship with her.

She told me that she's kinda seeing someone right now and I told her I just want to be her friend because she's not my type and I convinced her to go out on a date with me. She kept saying like "I want to do something... but I'm not sure if he would be okay with it..." and I just said well if he isn't ok with it, then he doesn't trust you. If there's no trust, theres no relationship. If he hung out with his friends would you care? She said No. Then I hit her back with then why should he? I convinced her and I told her so w hen's a good time? And she told me Wednesday night and I told her I'll call her on Wednesday. She was with him for only 2 weeks.

I don't want to just ignore her because she likes talking to me and even if we were to be friends, I still win because my buddies would still be jealous because they didn't have the balls to talk to her and I always do. I'm just trying to fvck her.
 
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