Should I NEXT or stay Persistent?

[foreverace87]

They say to never burn your bridges....

Stats: HB8/9, 21 years old, super freak, history of volatile relationships

Summary: Met a girl who is a student in a college town that I work in, fvcked her within 3 days, come to find out she has a LDR bf (who she is not attracted to anymore). I get action almost on daily basis.The day before she goes home for time off, she comes over for some SUPER hardcore action. Then she uses said bf to drive her back to hometown, comes back after 10 days and goes COLD.

My Goal: Keep her as a recurring fvck buddy.

I met HB8/9 during a motorcycle group ride. Within 3 days we hit it off. Over the next 10 days, I would invite her to my place and there would be action every day. There were plenty of IOIs, high interest level, and I didn’t mind her too much. She then tells me she has a bf and then goes on ranting about the fact that she is not seaxually attracted to him. She tells me she has to mentally prepare herself to even bring herself to fvck him. She tells me that "it really sucks that her family loves him and that he is a great guy." I listened to her bs and then consciously made up my mind not to get into a relationship with her. As far as I was concerned, it would be strictly fvcking. She then takes ten days off to go home. Before she leaves, she comes over and fvcks like a TOTAL ANIMAL. She then tells me she is using her bf who is now her "ex" to drive her home (which sickened me). When she comes back after 10 days, she texts me and wants to ride motorcycles again. I invite her to my place and when she is sitting next to me, she goes completely COLD and leaves and before she goes she says "its always motorcycle riding and SOMETHING ELSE, not just riding". So I give it a 3 day break and text her on her day off…

Me: Hey there, whats up?
Her: Laundry
Me: Nice…I am gonna study until 1600 and then gonna come see u
Her: I don’t know if I am going to be home
Me: K then how about this evening around 2000
Her: Possibly :/
Me: Then u cant be mad at me for not coming over as often. Heading on a formation ride. Ttyl
Her: Formation ride?
Me: Yea
Her: I don’t get it.
Me: Gotta go, will explain later

…another 3 days go by

Me: Hey got some interesting news.
Her: What is your news Sir?
Me: Ur gonna have to wait to hear it monkey
Her: Umm ok…I wont see you for a while
Me: No prob, what’s the reason?
Her: I am gone this weekend helping sister move into dorm then I start classes Monday
Me: Sounds good. I am headed to DC as well, should be a blast.
Her: Nice! Well you have fun!

Bottom line: Since she has been back, no lays whatsoever. This biatch is completely cold. Should I NEXT or put her on the shelf for future use?

 

[pyros]

I think the only thing you can do is...guess what...? go no contact. She doesnt seem to want to hang out with you now? there is nothing you can do.

forget about her until she reaches out. Go find some action somewhere else because...she is probably getting it from another dude.

 

[Heisenberg]

And on a side note, work on your text game. It reads like something out of a PUA manual.

 

[hudpes]

You're already overreaching a little and it's counterproductive. Let the crazy in her brain settle and if she contacts you again, aim for a ride, but not the motorcycle one. If not, you'll know where you stand, but in the meantime, no need to waste your time, find someone else.

 

[LorenzoVonM]

I agree with the others. She is trying to redefine your relationship and you are helping her with all the needy texting. Go dark and be fine with never hearing from her again. You will though.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Sounds like you where just a crutch to get over the EX. Then on the 10 day trip she went & banged her ex & now you wanna keep banging her now that she's back? Broads are emotional she probably feels like a wh*re thats been riding the c*ck carousel. Cause lets face it she has been!
Let it go man, plenty of other college chicks in your town. I bet it's not the first time your bike got you laid.
Keep the rubber side down bro!

 

[foreverace87]

Sounds like you where just a crutch to get over the EX. Then on the 10 day trip she went & banged her ex & now you wanna keep banging her now that she's back? Broads are emotional she probably feels like a wh*re thats been riding the c*ck carousel. Cause lets face it she has been!
Let it go man, plenty of other college chicks in your town. I bet it's not the first time your bike got you laid.
Keep the rubber side down bro!

Haha, that last sentence cracked me up. Thanks for the advice, I think she really is going through her post-whoare phase.