Should I next now?

[trans_am17]

Today I had plans to go out with this girl(manager's daughter) I asked her out Tuesday and talked to her Friday to make sure it was still on and she said yes. So today I called her at 10:30 and her friend answered and said that she was taking a nap, also her friend said that she'd tell her that I called. So now its 3:30 and I know she can't still be sleeping but she hasn't called me back. I don't want to seem desparate and keep calling her . Should I just next her and assume she didn't want to go out?

 

[trans_am17]

Does anyone think it's be wrong on my part if I didn't even bother to call her again and just completley next her? Also what do I do if she ever calls me?

 

[kidkoala]

I wouldn't call her back you have to have standards ya know. If she calls back I'd be like I don't like girls who flake out on me and then say bye and see what happens.

 

[trans_am17]

I just erased her number from my phone. Dammit now things are going to be even more weird around her mom at work. If she didn't want to go out why the hell did she start all this crap and say yes when I asked her?

 

[BxPrince24]

what's there to feel arkward about? If it was me I'd be exactly the same with or without her. It wasn't my fault she didn't get back to me. but then again, it hasn't even been a day yet. Don't stress it. Whatever happens happens. You have a life to live and it's not based around her, so continue doing what your normally do. If she calls then she calls, if not then her loss.

 

[trans_am17]

My friend who also know her called her yesterday and asked her what happened to our date and she told him she fell asleep all day. Also he asked her if she likes me and she said"she doesn't know". He then asked her why she didn't call me back that day and again she said"she didn't know" She told him to tell me to call her on her cellphone but I don't think I'll even bother.

 

[Porky]

don't call her.

she's a flaky attention wh0re.

if she wants to see you, she'll call you. Moving on will show her that you are a challenge and that you don't need her.

Talking to her on the phone for so long was a mistake. I don't remember, but what was it - two three hour sessions? Just about any girl would lose interest in a guy after all of that. it's completely natural.

learn from your mistakes and move on. If she approaches you and wants to go out again, you know this time how not to mess up.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Listen to the Porkster.

 

[isotope]

Originally posted by trans_am17
Does anyone think it's be wrong on my part if I didn't even bother to call her again and just completley next her? Also what do I do if she ever calls me?

it wouldnt be 'wrong' becaus eyou're a DJ and you can do whatever you want

but i think it is an overrecation

for all you know, her stupid friend might not have even giben her the message.

i would do what GG said and leave a message on her machine, just throw the ball back in her court and then it's up to her to call you back

then you can next her if she doesnt. dont next girls TOO quickly because you're afraid to looking AFC. If you do that you might next a girl that shouldnt have been. it's a delicate balance and you have to decide situation by situation

 

[trans_am17]

The girl called me today. We talked briefly and I let her know I was pissed that she flaked. She said she fell asleep and then her parents were fighting over something. I told her she should have called and she said"I know". Then I asked her why she didn't and she said she didn't want to make me mad. She told me to call her back in a few minutes. Also this was about 2 hours ago and I didn't call her back. I really don't know if I should give her another chance or what. But since she called back I guess she's still interested.What do you guys think?

 

[isotope]

shes young, she may be shy or hesitant, give her some leeway

and stop obeying the rules so literally it's silly

you should have just called her back it doesnt necessarily make you weak. you are only weak if you take shyt from her.

 

[ice_cream]

Originally posted by trans_am17
The girl called me today. We talked briefly and I let her know I was pissed that she flaked. She said she fell asleep and then her parents were fighting over something. I told her she should have called and she said"I know". Then I asked her why she didn't and she said she didn't want to make me mad. She told me to call her back in a few minutes. Also this was about 2 hours ago and I didn't call her back. I really don't know if I should give her another chance or what. But since she called back I guess she's still interested.What do you guys think?

From what I've read, I don't think she's all that interested in you, considering that she said "I don't know" when your friend asked her. But if you like this girl that much, you should give her a second chance.

 

[trans_am17]

Well I thought I'd give her a 2nd chance but now she wont answer her phone when I call. I think shes mad that I was pissed off at her the last time I talked to her and she told me to call back and I didn't.

 

[trans_am17]

Is this situation "fixable"?

 

[trans_am17]

anyone?