"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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should i next her?

johnnylaters

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basically i was dating this woman for a while and since a while back shes dating this other dude and it seems like they have become very connected. she seems to be very into him. should i next her and go to something else or just ignore the situation and ask her out for another date? or is it just waist of energy and time? cause iknow some women are dating many guys to see whats best fo her. lol

the reason why i havent next her earlier is becuse we still talk to each other from time to time and she always wondering what im up to. or have i just been thrown into the friendzone?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Are you dating other girls or only her?

Are you ****ing/ hooking up with her?
 

johnnylaters

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no i dont and if i would im sure i woulnt post this thread

i ****ed her twice but that was a while ago though
 
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