"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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should i move on?

o14liquid

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hey guys alright i'ma tell ya'll the whole story so it'll make sense more.

i went to the dentist a couple of weeks ago. had this girl xray my teeth and was basically just chating. anyways i went back about 3days later to get my teeth cleaned. and of course me and her talked again. but i didn't ask her for her number or anything, that time. a couple of days later i came back there to pay my bill, and again i talked to her. i talked to her for about 30 mins then had to leave becuz they were about to close up the place and clean. before i left she gave me her number, her cell and her house. told me to call her at 7 i told her alright. i didn't call her at 7. instead i called her the next day and we went out for some icecream. so here we were at the icecream shop. just hanging out and we ordered an icecream, shared it. was teh bubblegum flavor one with bubblegum pieces in them. anyways here we were just chatting and eating and she brings up that theres pieces of gum in the icecream....(we didn't know that before o_O) anyhoo she basicallys feeds me a piece. then after we ate she invited me over to hang at her place (she lives with her sister and her bro in law) i said sure i'll follow, then she says well if your going to follow might as well not go. then i said well we could just take your car then and we do so. go back to her place and we hang out then was time for me to leave cuz we both had to work the next day at 7am. anyhoo next day i called to see if she wanted to do something later in teh evening. but i would call her back becuz i was busy at teh moment. so i called her at around 8 and her bro in law said she was asleep so i said alright and hung up. called her the sunday and she said she wasn't feeling good and she slept early. i said thats cool, and asked her if she wanted to do something later at around 7. she said alright but wasn't sure if she'll be able to cuz she was gonna go grocery shopping. i couldn't hang with her at the moment becuz i was going to hang with some friends. anyhoo i call her house at around 7 to see if she was home. her bro in law picked up and said she had gone to the store. then her sister got on. told that she'll tell her to call me whenever she gets back. i said alright so i just stayed home and watched tv and chill'd (didn't care much if she didn't call back or not becuz either way i'll see her tomorrow) and that pretty much sums it up. question i have is.......is she playing hardball? or was she not feeling good and probably wasn't feeling good sunday either? i dont like girls that play hard to get. the whole weekend when i called her cell she doesn't pick up. but i figure she doesn't have it with her or she has her music turned up loud again and wouldn't hear it. what do u guys think i should do? just foget her and move on or ask her wats up wit not answering my calls or ??......
any help would be greatful
 

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blienk

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Don't call so often! Wait 3-4 days with no contact and then try giving her a call.
 

drmeathead

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Dude I just got done with a girl that jerked me around. We never went on date number two. Date two was planned several times. She stopped talking to me all of a sudden. She either called or texted me 10 times between the day after the first date and the day I last heard from her two weeks later.


That is my experience recently so take my advice in stride. I would next her. Dont put up with such disrespect. The cell phone she has doesnt tell her what calls she missed? She knows you called and still didnt call back. She is out. The sister got on in the middle of the call to tell you she will make sure that this girl will call when she gets in. That is ******** for quit calling already.


Sorry man but I say move on. You seem to be pretty smooth if you got digits for cell and home. Dont crawl on your belly for this one. She isnt worth it. Now if you were to tell me she is THE DENTIST...jk still not worth it.
 

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Ummm... as much as you hate mind games and what not, you've got to play them a little to gain interest from a girl. You want to keep the phone calling in your favor. Meaning she should be the one calling you more often than you call her. After you two hung out the initial night you should have waited 2-3 days and THEN called her again. And stop trying to set up get together's so soon after then previous one. It shows her that your putting all your eggs in her basket, have nothing else going in your life and indirectly tells her how you feel about her.


I'd back off for about a week and then try one last time to get together. If she accepts then follow these guidelines after that. If she doesn't answer or call back.....NEXXT




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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

o14liquid

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yea i'm too impatient. i'ma call her up thursday or friday and see if she wants to do something. if she doesn't it dont matter. gonna be pretty busy for awhile. going to join a triathlon at teh local gym. wasn't my idea i was looking at the sheet seeing what it was and some girls talked me into signing up. they also signed up so i'ma probably train with them :D
 
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