should i move on?

[jaszhu]

hello so just meet a girl from parents friend, both our parents doing business with each other, i have seen her only two times with in 4 to 6 month both time are because i have to pick up some stuff from her for my parents. the 2nd time i seen was a week ago.
just 4days ago i started to text her, got her name and made some small talk.
such as what job do we do, whats our plan for the summer break, oh by the way we are college student still. the last time i text her was yesterday and talked about what movie we like
after the last text she send me about 10am i haven't had time to text her back.
so at 5pm yesterday i decided to call her and ask her out for a coffee but as figured she did not answer the phone.

so till now i have not yet contact her in anyway witch is about 20hrs
still not a answer from her

i am wondering if i should just forget about her or try contact her once more?
and how should i do it?

i know i am a beta type but i am trying my best do deal with this more maturely

and sorry about my bad grammar english are my second language i am doing the best i can to improve my self. and this is also why i am very shy around people and never realize how important to improve everything about me untill now.

please if anyone got any suggestion

thanks

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Women, especially young women today RARELY will answer their phone to talk to a new guy, unless they are highly attracted to him. What usually ends up happening is you meet a new girl:

-exchange a few flirty texts
-ask her out, if she agrees and has fun
-wait a few days, text her again to make plans
-somewhere between the 1-3 date once you get physical (sex, hooking up to some degree), she will readily answer phone calls from you.

In other words, text is the preferred form of communication for most women now. Its informal, but effective. Once she feels comfortable with you, on top of the attraction she has, she will willingly talk on the phone with you.
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Now for some advice; don't bore her by asking her what movies she likes, what she does for work etc. None of those conversations increases attraction on her end for you.

You need to tease her, be playful, flirt and peak her interest.


Lastly, she knows you called, but she isn't that comfortable with you yet.

What I would do is wait a couple days, then start texting her again. When the text conversation is at a good point, ask her out for coffee. If she doesn't give you a yes or offer another day, she's not interested.








PIMP

 

[like2jam]

Wait, so she texted you last, and then you tried to call her, but she didn't answer, correct?

So you haven't really asked her out yet. I wouldn't give up already. I'd give it a little time and try to call her again, but at a different time of day.

Hopefully she'll pick up, but she could be shy or prefer to deal with texts at her age. Depends on the girl I suppose.

Hopefully at least you can get some text dialog going again with her. But remember, the main reason for texting right now is not to get to know her, or her you, but to ask her out!

 

[foolyoufool]

I'd do what Pimp said. Wait a day or two and text her again. But try to make it flirty and playful. Then ask her out and see where it goes. If she's not interested then move on.