"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should I move in?

DJHoolahoop

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And I don't mean finding an apartment with a girl. I'm talking about this girl I know that recently had been dumped by her bf and normally I'd be wary about approaching this one, but if getting to where I've gotten has taught me anything its that its best to concern yourself with the present and not the past or future.

I'm thinking about being casual about it as I also have two other girls on the side I'm working with. I don't think it'd be such a bad thing to hang out as right now it wouldn't bug me if nothing were to come out of it. I'm wondering if its a bad idea or not and I ask because my friend says no, but my mind says go for it.

What do you think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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scribblec

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go for it, sounds like you have the right mindset about it so even if there is a no it wouldnt affect u, but why regret something which u dont need to?
 

DJDamage

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Go for it.

It doesn't matter that she just ended her relationship with her bf. She could just want to use you as a rebound but what would you care? You will still get a piece of ass and if she flakes on you then you move on with the other two.

Just remember her breaking up with her Bf does not give her the right to act up (cry, pout, deny you physical pleasure or act flakey). If she exhibits any of those problems drop her because she is dealing with her own issues and you don't need the drama and frustrations to come into your life.

DJD
 
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