Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should I move in?

DJHoolahoop

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And I don't mean finding an apartment with a girl. I'm talking about this girl I know that recently had been dumped by her bf and normally I'd be wary about approaching this one, but if getting to where I've gotten has taught me anything its that its best to concern yourself with the present and not the past or future.

I'm thinking about being casual about it as I also have two other girls on the side I'm working with. I don't think it'd be such a bad thing to hang out as right now it wouldn't bug me if nothing were to come out of it. I'm wondering if its a bad idea or not and I ask because my friend says no, but my mind says go for it.

What do you think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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scribblec

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go for it, sounds like you have the right mindset about it so even if there is a no it wouldnt affect u, but why regret something which u dont need to?
 

DJDamage

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Go for it.

It doesn't matter that she just ended her relationship with her bf. She could just want to use you as a rebound but what would you care? You will still get a piece of ass and if she flakes on you then you move on with the other two.

Just remember her breaking up with her Bf does not give her the right to act up (cry, pout, deny you physical pleasure or act flakey). If she exhibits any of those problems drop her because she is dealing with her own issues and you don't need the drama and frustrations to come into your life.

DJD
 
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