"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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should i masturbate before clubbing tonihgt? lol

garruk

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i just got back from a long ass vacation wiht my family where i havent any release for about 3 weeks.


going to go clubbing/bars tonight.


in your experience should i wack it before going out tonight?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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garruk said:
i just got back from a long ass vacation wiht my family where i havent any release for about 3 weeks.


going to go clubbing/bars tonight.


in your experience should i wack it before going out tonight?
I dont know what desperate guy had the idea that it would help to refrain from fapping. Just do it lol.

This is from someone who has a gf and gets laid, so maybe i'm not the best person to ask.
 

garruk

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i acutally have a gf too but shes in another part of the state and i wont see her until summer school starts next week.

in the mean time, this means i have a free pass if i meet a girl tonight because my gf will have no idea. lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't do it, if you don't jack off you'll be more motivated getting it from a woman other than your hand...
 

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dont orgasm before going to a club. I made the mistake of fvcking the sh1t out of one of my girls before clubbing two weeks in a row and man I was just not even urgent at all. Sure you might be spazzing out but you need to have that fire in you or you won't make the best of your night.
 

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garruk said:
i just got back from a long ass vacation wiht my family where i havent any release for about 3 weeks.


going to go clubbing/bars tonight.


in your experience should i wack it before going out tonight?
No.
 
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