Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should I make anything of this?

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dadmonson

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This girl use to tutor me in Biology last year and I think she kind of likes me. Anyway the other day I saw her doing #2 on the toilet in the bathroom. It is a unisex small single toilet bathroom and I just went in there and she was naked waste down on the crapper. I wasn't expecting to see her so I just said "O LORD!" and closed the door real quick. I heard her say, "Did he see me?!?!?" laughingly.

Should I try to tease her about it or something next time I see her? Or should I just forget about it. I see her every Wednesday.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PLEASE don't ever mention this again. If she brings it up, just say "yeah, I'm really sorry about that" (sincerely) and act like you saw NOTHING.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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