You invested time and energy into them, so because of that you don't want to give up, you start feeling like you have to finish the job because of the investment. You start to confuse that feeling as thinking you really care about them, but it's just a mind trick. It's much harder to walk away from these women, even though you're getting nowhere with them. You keep thinking you're getting close, but the finish line just moves further and further awayI will add that anytime I went back out West for work she would hang out with me if she had time. Idk if that helps.
I can avoid most chicks. But certain girls from my past I become a simp for. Its the girls that I feel like I should have conqured. Its the ones that kept me in the maybe zone.
Deep down I just want to know WHY? Why did they sleep in my bed, cuddle, some even kissed but they never let me smash at all.
Why did they love my energy, but wouldnt validate me physically.
I know the answer but yet I am still stuck in getting the answer. The answer ( if I get one) will be chaotic and fuzzy as usual. They dont fully understand the why either. Chaos
For this particular girl I suspect that I am not her physical type. But I have really good game and im funny ( to her). So I got friendzoned. She is pacific islander and doesnt really date dark dudes.
Most of the girls that friendzone me are not of my race. That racial barrier is alot to cross for some people. I understand too.
It happens, you just gotta move on.