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Should I kiss her on the cheeks and forehead when I meet her on the first date?

peacefire

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hey guys I was wondering would it be a good Idea, when I first see the girl, without any hugging or anything togo in kiss her on the cheeks and then on the forehead.

how would you greet a girl on the first date?
 

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Allurre

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Doesn't matter whether there's any kino applied or not.

As soon as you see her, be enthusiastic, positive, fun.

Most importantly, relax.

Just say... "Well hello there, how are you?"

... "it's great to see you in person. let's move on to xxxxxxx shall we?"

You don't need to start at a climax; unless you can sustain that level of energy throughout.
 

Arrhenius

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Kissing the forehead feels very 1900th century and conveys the wrong message as well as possibly putting her on her guard which is a ****ty way to start a date.

I usually do a half hug which is far less threatening. As allure said be positive and fun but dont be a duracell bunny.
 

AlexTheGreat

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Cheek kiss is beautiful when done naturally. :)

Make sure you kiss both cheeks though.
 

Deniska

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Kissing one cheek is perfectly fine when you greet a girl.

Kissing on forehead is something fathers do to their children. Dont do it.
 

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