"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I keep letting her marinate? Or stick a fork in her?

Ice_Berg_1

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I've been in contact with this HB for about 8 or 9 months now. I initially got her number one night just because it seemed like the thing to do. I met her one night through mutual friends we all went clubbing and got drunk, she ended up giving me a lift home, I got her digits but was really interested in one of her friends. So time went by, somehow she got my number started calling me wanting to spend time with me. At first I gave her the shaft, but one day I finally gave in. We started hanging out and I ended up acually becoming attracted to her. I made the mistake of assuming she was wanting to get serious with me but when I brought up the issue she gave me the LJBF blowoff. At this point maybe I should have nexted her but I continued to be "friends" with her but I treated her like one of my boys. I started bringing girls I was "tappin" around her, she ended up getting jelous. I make plans to do stuff with her but I don't really look at her as a priority so I forget about alot of our dates or cancel on her because something better comes along. She seems to have no problem with this, I can tell i am really getting to her because now everytime I find time to hang out with her she seems to be trying to make exuses to go back to her place, and whenever she bumps into my friends she complains about me and acts as if we're a couple or something. I'm not jumping to any conclusions because I know how females like to play games, but should I start looking for, or start trying to create an opportunity to make a move. Or, should I continue playing it cool and making exuses to spend as little time as possible with her and just wait until she makes a move?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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