"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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should i just not reply?

big weezy

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doesn't matter i already replied..
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dude she has a cold. Let her get over it. You're way too eager, should text her a few times before asking her out. However, from her texts she seems interested. I usually don't hit on chicks at work, they get hit on 1000x a day.

Wait a day or so, text her back with a short funny story or something. Keep it light. Let her tell you when she's ready. She has not rejected you at this point, IMHO. Her excuses seem valid.
 
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