Should I just keep the NC going?

[pete101]

If i got into a slight argument with a girl i'm trying to game. should i just keep doing the no contact till she responds again?

back story: we were talking on whatsapp and she was giving me the 'speech' (you know.. 'i've only had long relationships not into one night stands etc..) usual BS.. i say to her 'dont worry i dont think you're easy ' and she got offended and wrote back 'why would i care if you thought i was easy? judge all you want' i know it was a fake smiley face, and i said to her to not take what i said so seriously, it was a compliment not an insult and she didn't respond after i clarified what i said. anyway a day later she asks me 'so how did your date go?'

i ignored her. (we usually talk everyday on whatsapp) i didn't like her attitude of 'i dont care what you think'.. it's been 3 days now. should i bother replying now or just carry on no contacting her? im trying to demonstrate i'm not a pushover and going to apologise when i done nothing wrong.

 

[fuko2007]

I would keep doing NC to be honest. And i would never have of apologized for my comment when she said that. If she dsnt care what you think why should you care what she thinks. Wait untill she texts something along the lines of hey sorry i let that get to me or hey want to do something. Even then wait a few hours to respond.

 

[NewAndImproved]

Since time has already passed, just continue on without talking about it.

And in the future, instead of talking about whether or not she's easy, disqualify yourself. "What makes you think I'M that easy?" or not even a question: "All good. I'M not that easy anyway."

Notice how your way made things way too serious, got you in reactive and apologetic mode (BAD) but at least she changed the subject for you.

 

[TheException]

i said to her to not take what i said so seriously, it was a compliment not an insult and she didn't respond after i clarified what i said.

You shouldnt feel the need to explain or "clarify" yourself....its comes off as supplicating. A simple "Lighten up...wheres that sense of humor at?" would suffice.

i ignored her. (we usually talk everyday on whatsapp)

The italics above^ is the problem.

should i bother replying now or just carry on no contacting her?

Why in the he11 are you even going NC? People literally have zero clue about NC. In any case, no you cant respond to her now...its been 3 days. If you text her now it should be to try to hangout....no idea about the details, is she your gf, a plate, f buddy, girl you like, oneitis, etc.

im trying to demonstrate i'm not a pushover and going to apologise when i done nothing wrong.

LOL^

You already did "apologize/be a pushover" when you tried to "clairfy" and explain yourself....now your just coming off as a sniveling beta who is butthurt that you got a little attitude from the girl and failed her sh1t test. Once again her actions dont warrant NC.