SHOULD I HELP PAY HER BILLS

[Deleted member 138215]

I've been dating a woman for two years.Its been on and off again.We don't have sex as much as I would like.It can sometimes be an issue.She recently came to me after another four month stint and wanted to break up.She contacted me two days later and We went to dinner.She made it clear that she didn't want sex.She told me to go home unless I wanted to help pay her bills.I wouldn't mind helping but I want the affection and sex from her.Should I discuss this with her?Should I ask if about the label of the relationship?How do I address the sex issue?We are both in our forties.

 

[highSpeed]

I'll pretend this is a troll thread....cuz if it ain't, I'll do you the favor of giving you a one word explanation, no further discussion needed: NO!!!!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

No. You don't even consider it unless you live together. And even then pay only on joint bills.

 

[dude99]

I've been dating a woman for two years.Its been on and off again.W9e don't have sex as much as I would like.It can sometimes be an issue.She recently came to me after another four month stint and wanted to break up.She contacted me two days later and We went to dinner.She made it clear that she didn't want sex.She told me to go home unless I wanted to help pay her bills.I wouldn't mind helping but I want the affection and sex from her.Should I discuss this with her?Should I ask if about the label of the relationship?How do I address the sex issue?We are both in our forties.

Kick her to the curb.

The woman you described in your question above has zero redeeming qualitite.

Why pay the bills of a demanding inflexable woman who doesn't give a crap about you? The only reason she contacted you and wanted to go to dinner is because she sees you as a wallet.

Kick her to the curb

 

[Bible_Belt]

All the guys posting here are insensitive pigs. I, for one, think you should help her. Buy her some revealing clothes and lingerie and send her to a beauty salon. Rent an expensive hotel room to take some sexy pics. Then sell her ass on craigslist for $250 a pop. You'll get your money back quickly, and then even have a little left over to help the poor girl out.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

hahahha I know the feeling, you have huge feelings for her and you really do want to help her out, because you actually give a chit about her.

I'm saying from exlerience.. if you still her straight up no to her face on evert hung she asks she'll fvck you.

last weekend my ex called me on Friday night and said her transmission blew up in the middle of nowhere with her friends as they were heading dtown..

him.. heading downtown to get fvcked by the clubs rats.

I said nope can't do it I'm busy tonight, I felt so bad and like the biggest prick not helping a stranded gurl begging for help.

an hour later she shows up at my house at 10pm in a cop car escort, skipped her downtown fun time and slept with me the whole night whole I had my way with her.

Pretty fvcking funny.

if a btch is asking for her bills to get paid it's a completr chit test plain and simple.

 

[Billtx49]

If she wants money before treating you right and getting some sex, what kind of woman does that define her as being?
What is a relationship that’s now based on money between a man and woman?

Putting it tactfully, it would be seller and buyer, but other terms come to my mind also…