should i have stood up for what i believed in?or give in?

[ScrewIt]

yea anyway i was watching a movie w/this HB8 yesterday.
First 50 Dates.

and i noticed one of the characters which had the messed up voice, was none other than Sam Wise from LOTR.

i said, hey, that looks like Sam Wise from LOTR.
she didnt have her glasses at the time, so i lent her mines to check if it was him. she said nah it's not him.

NO doubt it was him because i have good photographic memory.
i go "no? oh well"

i know you're supposed to stick up for what you believe in, but i dindt want to seem stubborn and start a debate w/her that she was wrong. If i was w/my guy buddies, i'd stick up for what i believed in.

did i do good in this situation or no? or what should i have done?

 

[Julian]

This is why i dont come to this board anymore, i mean seriously man. Do you not have anything better to do then ask a question as inane as this?

 

[SDBmania]

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Hmm, dude, who cares? J/K

Look sorry, but it's just that why does it matter?
You could have just stuck to your guns without getting into a debate, but it's not important who is wrong or right. And this was not an important issue. I'm sure she won't bring it up so you shouldn't wither.

 

[Shadow Dancer]

You should have punched her in the mouth.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Dude, you did well, sometimes you just have to pick your battles. This does not mean that you have to agree with someone else all of the time or even some of the time. The important thing that you agree or not agree to do is to argue about it. Do you want to be right or do you want things to work? It's a fine line to balance upon.

Now I would bring up with her if it seems to be a reoccurring pattern of her disagreeing with you as if she is challenging you. That isn't cool. If that's the case, definitely ask her about what she feels when you give her information. She could be insecure and internalize that you do not feel that she's very intelligent.

I'm in no way saying that you mean to do that but lets face it, women do not always hear things logically in their emotional minds. Just be ready for the flood gates to open up when you ask her about her feelings.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Shadow Dancer
You should have punched her in the mouth.

LOLOLOLOLOL!!!!