"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should I have nexted ?

Wiesman44

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I'm 21 yrs old. Meet this freshman girl in college first day. End up hanging w/ her friends, buy her alcohol, yada yada. 2nd day we end up hanging at my lakehouse, making out, canoeing, going out to eat.......w/e ........few days later we make out and eat lunch on campus..........She has a b/f, I know this............She breaks up with him later that week....... She continues to IM me everyday. Yet, she doesnt want to hang out w/ me anymore. She says "I just wanna hang out w/ my girls". She Im's me tonight, a full week after she "just wants to hang w/ her girls" still doesnt wanna hang out.


Normal behavior after a 3 yr break-up ? I doubt it.

U all think I should next her ? b/c I think i should.

(I've just decided to next her) Anyone that thinks i shouldnt, speak up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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next her dude she fresh your senior you should go for more mature....plus anychick that has a boyfriend that quick and breaks up like the next week and then text you aLL DAy and doesn't wanna hang out needs to be next for GOOD!!
 

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shes crazy !!
 

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Next. She is making it pretty clear she doesn't want to see you.
 

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******** LESSON #62

"Hang out with my girls" - drink and slut it up.

Your girl used to have a boyfriend, so she was sneaking around with you because you kept it on the D/L. Now that she is officially single again, she is playing the field.

It should've been obvious (although it NEVER really is) that she wasn't into relationships when she cheated on her current man with you. Now she finally worked up the ovaries to break it off with him and you want her to jump into ANOTHER ONE with you??

Your angel is a slvt. Use her, wear her out, then throw her to the next dude.

That's what she's about.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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haha, its always amazing how guys think that some chic who sells her bf out won't sell them out.

she knows she's a slut, knows that ultimately you know this too (even if you won't admit it to yourself), and knows that you are a slut also (cuz you're macking on sloppy seconds).

She used you to justify breaking up with her bf (remember, chics justify behavior based on their emotions, not logic), and now will go find a guy who doesn't know what she did and doesn't know shes a slut who cheats on her bf and who she can pretend shes miss innocent with.

how could you not see this coming?
this is how sluts behave. Their slutty ways overpower them then after a while they realize they've behaved like a slut, are ashamed to some degree, and want to start over with some guy who doesn't know their past actions.

J
 

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why do u guys assume I want a relationship ? I dont want one. I just want to nail her. But i wanted to know if yall think I should give up.


Obviously she's not relationship material
 

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
why do u guys assume I want a relationship ? I dont want one. I just want to nail her. But i wanted to know if yall think I should give up.


Obviously she's not relationship material
she playin with ur head.
 
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