"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I have nexted ?

Wiesman44

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I'm 21 yrs old. Meet this freshman girl in college first day. End up hanging w/ her friends, buy her alcohol, yada yada. 2nd day we end up hanging at my lakehouse, making out, canoeing, going out to eat.......w/e ........few days later we make out and eat lunch on campus..........She has a b/f, I know this............She breaks up with him later that week....... She continues to IM me everyday. Yet, she doesnt want to hang out w/ me anymore. She says "I just wanna hang out w/ my girls". She Im's me tonight, a full week after she "just wants to hang w/ her girls" still doesnt wanna hang out.


Normal behavior after a 3 yr break-up ? I doubt it.

U all think I should next her ? b/c I think i should.

(I've just decided to next her) Anyone that thinks i shouldnt, speak up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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next her dude she fresh your senior you should go for more mature....plus anychick that has a boyfriend that quick and breaks up like the next week and then text you aLL DAy and doesn't wanna hang out needs to be next for GOOD!!
 

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shes crazy !!
 

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Next. She is making it pretty clear she doesn't want to see you.
 

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******** LESSON #62

"Hang out with my girls" - drink and slut it up.

Your girl used to have a boyfriend, so she was sneaking around with you because you kept it on the D/L. Now that she is officially single again, she is playing the field.

It should've been obvious (although it NEVER really is) that she wasn't into relationships when she cheated on her current man with you. Now she finally worked up the ovaries to break it off with him and you want her to jump into ANOTHER ONE with you??

Your angel is a slvt. Use her, wear her out, then throw her to the next dude.

That's what she's about.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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haha, its always amazing how guys think that some chic who sells her bf out won't sell them out.

she knows she's a slut, knows that ultimately you know this too (even if you won't admit it to yourself), and knows that you are a slut also (cuz you're macking on sloppy seconds).

She used you to justify breaking up with her bf (remember, chics justify behavior based on their emotions, not logic), and now will go find a guy who doesn't know what she did and doesn't know shes a slut who cheats on her bf and who she can pretend shes miss innocent with.

how could you not see this coming?
this is how sluts behave. Their slutty ways overpower them then after a while they realize they've behaved like a slut, are ashamed to some degree, and want to start over with some guy who doesn't know their past actions.

J
 

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why do u guys assume I want a relationship ? I dont want one. I just want to nail her. But i wanted to know if yall think I should give up.


Obviously she's not relationship material
 

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Originally posted by Wiesman44
why do u guys assume I want a relationship ? I dont want one. I just want to nail her. But i wanted to know if yall think I should give up.


Obviously she's not relationship material
she playin with ur head.
 
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