"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I have just gone for it? :s

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Was with a girl the other night, things are going good the whole time and she's clearly interested... kino is goin good and by the end of the night we were holding each other while standing... while doing this I started to kiss her neck(which would have led to me kissing her lips) but she pulled her head back with a back smile on her face and shook her head to tease me... now my reaction was to just not bother but in the back of my mind I keep thinking i should have just gone for it anyway and caveman her... my guess is that she did want it, just didnt wanna be seen as easy... shes stillin callin me so i know its not over but i still have this lil bump that i need to smoothen before i continue :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yes. u shudda gone caveman.

i tease my gf way more than she teases me lol

heres one thing i do: I go in as if I'm about to kiss her on the lips...very slowly...but then i kiss her on the cheek instead. I do this over and over, but with kisses to her nose and chin as well, randomly. Every time, she expects a kiss to the lips. I'm evil >=)

so basically, go caveman when u feel like it, but make sure you tease her sometimes, too. Girls just LOVE IT to death when you tease them.
 
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Don't trip. If you tried to kiss her and she denied and she still calls you...you have it! Just keep pursueing. Act like it didn't happen,dont mention it,then when she least expect it....kiss her. Then after you kiss her,blame it on her! Her jaw will hit the ground!
 
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Yes you should have. Some girls have some set-up rules for the first date, what they do, and what not. If she breaks one of them, then they also can freak out.
 
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my studies have shown that i probably shoulda just gone for it :<


grrrrrrrrrr
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My studies show that whenever your in this type of situation you go for it dont ever leave it so you come back to this website or anyother website or your mates and ask the old should I have questions.

Remember no hesitations.
 
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