"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I have just gone for it? :s

tadhgire

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Was with a girl the other night, things are going good the whole time and she's clearly interested... kino is goin good and by the end of the night we were holding each other while standing... while doing this I started to kiss her neck(which would have led to me kissing her lips) but she pulled her head back with a back smile on her face and shook her head to tease me... now my reaction was to just not bother but in the back of my mind I keep thinking i should have just gone for it anyway and caveman her... my guess is that she did want it, just didnt wanna be seen as easy... shes stillin callin me so i know its not over but i still have this lil bump that i need to smoothen before i continue :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Michael Chief

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yes. u shudda gone caveman.

i tease my gf way more than she teases me lol

heres one thing i do: I go in as if I'm about to kiss her on the lips...very slowly...but then i kiss her on the cheek instead. I do this over and over, but with kisses to her nose and chin as well, randomly. Every time, she expects a kiss to the lips. I'm evil >=)

so basically, go caveman when u feel like it, but make sure you tease her sometimes, too. Girls just LOVE IT to death when you tease them.
 

blinkwatt

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Don't trip. If you tried to kiss her and she denied and she still calls you...you have it! Just keep pursueing. Act like it didn't happen,dont mention it,then when she least expect it....kiss her. Then after you kiss her,blame it on her! Her jaw will hit the ground!
 

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Yes you should have. Some girls have some set-up rules for the first date, what they do, and what not. If she breaks one of them, then they also can freak out.
 

tadhgire

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my studies have shown that i probably shoulda just gone for it :<


grrrrrrrrrr
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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typical

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My studies show that whenever your in this type of situation you go for it dont ever leave it so you come back to this website or anyother website or your mates and ask the old should I have questions.

Remember no hesitations.
 
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