"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I have gotten her number?

avrilishot

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Tuesday I went to the dentist. And anyways there was this 27 year old hb6 cleaning my teeth for like 10 minutes. Then after that this other girl comes a HB 8 and she has her hands in my mouth doing whatever. while shes doing that shes telling me about herself. and she telling me jokes and stuff. Then after shes done she starts telling me alot about her saying how old she is. I find out she is a year older than me. We have a good conversation for like 10 or more minutes. But at the end I didnt ask for a number. I felt like it was to odd of a situation. I mean she did have her hands in my mouth and I guess now shes my new dentist. So should I have gotten her number or no? Also I have to see her in a few month again for a check up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tomatoes

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She may have just been trying to make you feel comfortable and relax. However. You never know if you never ask.
 

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whenever you ask yourself the question "should i of gotten this attractive girl's number" the answer will always be "yes".
 

Skel

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personally I couldnt ever date someone who sucked my saliva out of a tube, scraped placque off of my teeth and looked up my nose for 30 minutes.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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