"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Should I go to a tannin salon?

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So far Ive gotten 2 comments from 2 diff girls. They say that I would be hot as hell if iI was to get a tan. So im debating about going to get one. I always thought its kinda girly to goto a tanning saloon.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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UltimateScoundrel

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Then sit outside in the sun. Or, get an outdoors job, like wrestling wild bobcats or something.
 

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I live in virginia.... u dont get much sun over here during the winter. lol... I think im just gona go to a tanning salon I dont really care what people are going to think. If someone asks Ill just say that I just came back from Mexico. lol
 

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**** a tanning salon
white people are supposed to be white in the winter
 

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How much is tanning?

Im white as hell(a few people have even called me casper) and I look really pasty in the winter because there is no sun in New York.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well my brother actaully goes outside on the weekends every week to get a tan. he would go to our backyard, place a little bamboo sheet on the grass, get a towel over his faced and jus tan from there. He would only wear his shorts. but i dont think u should get a tan because ur jus putting a mask on yourself. What would happen if u went out with that girl and you stopped tanning would she not like u anymore??? and besides what if u do get a tan and you dont look as good as u wanted to?
 

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Originally posted by PiMpIn GuY
What would happen if u went out with that girl and you stopped tanning would she not like u anymore???
bloody noobs

dude, haven't you been paying attention. what matters is the way you act. if ur able to get the girl to go out with your afc ass then losing your tan won't make her lose interest
 

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The choice to go to a tanning salon is yours alone. Try tanning in your back yard first, it will save you money.

Moved to Anything Else.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just because you tan doesn't make you an instant AFC... I've been tanning for 2 years now, not because I care about what girls think but because I like the way that I look tan, rather than my natural pasty white color. I don't tan in the sun easily (well, now I do...) - before I started tanning indoors all I could do was get a sunburn. My advice is to get a tan if you think that will make you look better - it's not any worse than buying nicer clothes, or a better car... why not make yourself as attractive as possible? Take this into account.. would you rather a tan blonde girl, or one who's sickly white?
 

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Originally posted by Sammo
Try tanning in your back yard first, it will save you money.
Except when you have to get chemotherapy for that nasty skin cancer!
 

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Also if you get a tan you skin will age faster. So you may look slightly better today but you may look really ****ed up when your 50.
 
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