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Should I go to a legal brothel to get more experience?

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I think I posted this years ago from my old account, I used to have another SS account years ago, but I forgot my login credentials so I abandoned that account and made this one. So I live close by Nevada, where prostitution is legal at state licensed brothels. I occasionally check the brothel websites to see what girls are there and in 2019, I came across an escort who was actually pretty cute and one of her specialties is adult aged guys who are inexperienced. For those of you that haven’t seen my other posts where I’ve mentioned it, I’m almost 29 and have never been in a relationship and my only sexual experience is one hookup 5 years ago and oral with another girl 2 years ago.

After I came across her, I became very tempted to contact her and make an appointment to see her at the brothel. Especially because she said that she has no problem telling inexperienced guys what they’re doing wrong in bed and will give honest feedback and she’ll also go on a practice date with you in order to help teach you how to act on a date since the brothel has a bar and restaurant to do that at. Then the pandemic happened and she left that line of work, but just last night I discovered that she got back into it as the pandemic has eased, so once again I’m tempted.

That’s why I’m interested to hear what you guys think I should do, especially because I’ve always felt self conscious about my inexperience. If I do go through with it, I think I’ll end up doing the girlfriend experience since that’s the service she mentioned is the best for inexperienced guys and I’ll probably book an overnight visit with her since I’ve never spent the night with a girl and it would be nice to do that, even if its with an escort. I might do it if most of you guys think I should. But I’m also wondering if I should just use OLD to get experience instead, especially since that’s free and with regular girls.
 

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Don’t do it, she’s paid to have sex with you. What are your specs(race, height, weight, occupation, living arrangements, hobbies,place of residence, and are you ugly, average, or handsome). Don’t lie because it doesn’t help and I can easily tell if you are.
 
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Don’t do it, she’s paid to have sex with you. What are your specs(race, height, weight, occupation, living arrangements, hobbies,place of residence, and are you ugly, average, or handsome). Don’t lie because it doesn’t help and I can easily tell if you are.
Yeah I know, that’s why she’s an escort. I just thought it would be a good way to practice so that I don’t feel so bad about my inexperience. I’m 6’ and white, I weigh about 200 and I’m working on losing weight and gaining muscle right now, I still live at home with my parents and I like to travel, cook, grow food, and to go out and find cool new bars and restaurants that I’ve never been to.
 

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What can you do wrong in bed?

It’s about satisfying yourself as much as the girl. Kissing then grabbing then oral then missionary then doggy is my set routine, you can throw other positions in.

I’d focus more on your own pleasure, you can’t have en enjoyable sexual experience with the thought of “am I doing this right?”

I know some guys on here and elsewhere have a real thing for being her best ever, making her crazy for you etc. i do like for my partner to enjoy it but it really doesn’t bother me if she thinks I’m brilliant or crap. I don’t really measure myself on this kind of thing.

If I did what supposedly makes you a good lover, extremely long sessions of 1hr plus, I wouldn’t enjoy it personally. It would take the fun out of it. I’d get bored, so I’d rather be a mediocre lay than have to perform like an athlete for female approval. Sorry but there it is
 
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What can you do wrong in bed?

It’s about satisfying yourself as much as the girl. Kissing then grabbing then oral then missionary then doggy is my set routine, you can throw other positions in.

I’d focus more on your own pleasure, you can’t have en enjoyable sexual experience with the thought of “am I doing this right?”

I know some guys on here and elsewhere have a real thing for being her best ever, making her crazy for you etc. i do like for my partner to enjoy it but it really doesn’t bother me if she thinks I’m brilliant or crap. I don’t really measure myself on this kind of thing.

If I did what supposedly makes you a good lover, extremely long sessions of 1hr plus, I wouldn’t enjoy it personally. It would take the fun out of it. I’d get bored, so I’d rather be a mediocre lay than have to perform like an athlete for female approval. Sorry but there it is
See that’s the thing with me, her pleasure has always mattered a lot to me since I’ve always found the idea of her receiving a lot of pleasure from me and to see hear her reactions to be really hot. Hour long sex sessions sound amazing to me and I would love to be so good that she can’t get enough of fu*king me.
 

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See that’s the thing with me, her pleasure has always mattered a lot to me since I’ve always found the idea of her receiving a lot of pleasure from me and to see hear her reactions to be really hot. Hour long sex sessions sound amazing to me and I would love to be so good that she can’t get enough of fu*king me.
you don't get this from a brothel.
 

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See that’s the thing with me, her pleasure has always mattered a lot to me since I’ve always found the idea of her receiving a lot of pleasure from me and to see hear her reactions to be really hot. Hour long sex sessions sound amazing to me and I would love to be so good that she can’t get enough of fu*king me.
If women like you and they haven’t been around the block a thousand times they will enjoy it regardless.

as for her not getting enough of me…meh. I don’t actually like women who are that sex-oriented. I’m not that sex oriented.

Women I’ve been with who clearly had a very strong need and standard for sex I’ve generally found this unattractive. To me it speaks of a “50 shades” and “SATC” consumer, who’s had multiple partners and most likely will be romping away from you when you’ve been together and she’s getting bored.

i like women who aren’t sexually focussed, if that makes sense. to me, sex is a functional act to a certain extent, something which is needed, enjoyable etc but I think the pleasure comes from who and why, not some rehearsed karma sutra sh*t

if she’s deeply focussed on a standard of satisfaction I’m out, I don’t want to be held to a standard, she should like it because it’s me.

of course if I had a problem like lasting 45 seconds etc I would understand that. But I have no desire to be some landmark in her life, but each to their own.
 

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I think I posted this years ago from my old account, I used to have another SS account years ago, but I forgot my login credentials so I abandoned that account and made this one. So I live close by Nevada, where prostitution is legal at state licensed brothels. I occasionally check the brothel websites to see what girls are there and in 2019, I came across an escort who was actually pretty cute and one of her specialties is adult aged guys who are inexperienced. For those of you that haven’t seen my other posts where I’ve mentioned it, I’m almost 29 and have never been in a relationship and my only sexual experience is one hookup 5 years ago and oral with another girl 2 years ago.

After I came across her, I became very tempted to contact her and make an appointment to see her at the brothel. Especially because she said that she has no problem telling inexperienced guys what they’re doing wrong in bed and will give honest feedback and she’ll also go on a practice date with you in order to help teach you how to act on a date since the brothel has a bar and restaurant to do that at. Then the pandemic happened and she left that line of work, but just last night I discovered that she got back into it as the pandemic has eased, so once again I’m tempted.

That’s why I’m interested to hear what you guys think I should do, especially because I’ve always felt self conscious about my inexperience. If I do go through with it, I think I’ll end up doing the girlfriend experience since that’s the service she mentioned is the best for inexperienced guys and I’ll probably book an overnight visit with her since I’ve never spent the night with a girl and it would be nice to do that, even if its with an escort. I might do it if most of you guys think I should. But I’m also wondering if I should just use OLD to get experience instead, especially since that’s free and with regular girls.
Yes, if you can afford it, avail yourself of professionals; an incelibate lifestyle will drive most men mad, and you shouldn't let the hypergamous, anti-patriarchal, dark times of our age cause you to suffer. EscortMaxxing in all its forms (i.e., strip-club lap dances with a "happy ending", or poontang by the hour, etc.) has satisfied the sexual itch for me, and in so doing has made my quality of life much better than if I had taken the attitude that the only sex worth having is with women that are willing to do it for free.

The next step is to get yourself in a GeoMaxxing situation so that the price drops precipitously. One of my fondest memories was getting decent white poon for $7/hr.
 

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Book a flight to the Philippines or Thailand for two weeks, get a bunch of Slvts from tinder or other avenues.

You will gain a ton of experience.
 
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Book a flight to the Philippines or Thailand for two weeks, get a bunch of Slvts from tinder or other avenues.

You will gain a ton of experience.
I mean, when I live so close by a state where its completely legal at brothels, I would probably do that instead of going overseas. Especially since the brothel this girl is at is only 1 hour away from Vegas and Tinder can be very active there too
 
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Yes, if you can afford it, avail yourself of professionals; an incelibate lifestyle will drive most men mad, and you shouldn't let the hypergamous, anti-patriarchal, dark times of our age cause you to suffer. EscortMaxxing in all its forms (i.e., strip-club lap dances with a "happy ending", or poontang by the hour, etc.) has satisfied the sexual itch for me, and in so doing has made my quality of life much better than if I had taken the attitude that the only sex worth having is with women that are willing to do it for free.

The next step is to get yourself in a GeoMaxxing situation so that the price drops precipitously. One of my fondest memories was getting decent white poon for $7/hr.
I don’t know for sure how much it would cost since the law doesn’t allow you and the girl to talk prices until you’re physically at the brothel and in the same room as her. I have that same sexual itch, I think that spending the night with this girl and fu*king her several times during our encounter could satisfy it. But I know I’m gonna have to save up because spending the night with her won’t come cheap I’m sure, wouldn’t be surprised if it cost like 3K
 

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Yeah I know, its just a paid experience but I thought it could also be a learning experience for me as well
Don't listen to that poster... That poster couldn't tell a woman liked him when she kissed his pee pee "goodbye" before she went on her way, for the day...

You don't get there by being incel.... Any experience is good at this point.
 

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But I know I’m gonna have to save up because spending the night with her won’t come cheap I’m sure, wouldn’t be surprised if it cost like 3K
Save up for that, but also take your lumps online... Dumpster dive while saving for the escort.... If you get a fwb, you may change your mind on paying that for the escort, if you don't you're at least not foregoing avenues...
 

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Don't listen to that poster... That poster couldn't tell a woman liked him when she kissed his pee pee "goodbye" before she went on her way, for the day...

You don't get there by being incel.... Any experience is good at this point.
Me and you have spoken several times on here and we both have a similar background as I’ve mentioned before. I wouldn’t label myself as an incel though because I don’t blame women or society as a whole for my situation, I’m aware that it’s entirely self inflicted since I never had the confidence to make a move even when looking back at it, there were girls what were giving me clear signals. So you think I should go for it and get some experience that way?
 

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Me and you have spoken several times on here and we both have a similar background as I’ve mentioned before. I wouldn’t label myself as an incel though because I don’t blame women or society as a whole for my situation, I’m aware that it’s entirely self inflicted since I never had the confidence to make a move even when looking back at it, there were girls what were giving me clear signals. So you think I should go for it and get some experience that way?
This user is mentally retarded, don't listen to him.
 

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I wouldn’t label myself as an incel though because I don’t blame women or society as a whole for my situation, I’m aware that it’s entirely self inflicted since I never had the confidence to make a move even when looking back at it, there were girls what were giving me clear signals.
Incel has nothing to due with negativity. It's just that outlooks is a byproduct of being incel. It's simply not getting any sex when you're trying... But I'll rephrase... You won't get there by being celibate.

So you think I should go for it and get some experience that way?
I think you should cold approach, do OLD, and save up for the escort.
 
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Save up for that, but also take your lumps online... Dumpster dive while saving for the escort.... If you get a fwb, you may change your mind on paying that for the escort, if you don't you're at least not foregoing avenues...
That’s true, and also for the longest time I’ve been worried that I would get outed by a girl I’m interested in for being with an escort sometime afterwards. But now that I’m older and still have so little experience, my mindset has changed to where she doesn’t have to know that I was with an escort, I could probably play it off that I just got that experience from Tinder girls or something. One other obstacle is that I still live at home as I already told you, and that makes it hard to leave without them getting suspicious and wondering where I went for a couple days. My friend who I used to go to Nevada with all the time moved out of state, but I guess I could just lie to my parents and say that we’re meeting out there and I know that he would cover for me since I’ve mentioned going to an escort to him before in the past.
 
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Incel has nothing to due with negativity. It's just that outlooks is a byproduct of being incel. It's simply not getting any sex when you're trying... But I'll rephrase... You won't get there by being celibate.


I think you should cold approach, do OLD, and save up for the escort.
Cold approaching seems too cringy for me and it doesn’t seem to have much of a success rate, making the jump and signing up for OLD seems better, but I know its gonna suck and I’ll have to go through a lot of matches before one of them leads to an in person encounter. Then I can also set some money aside for the escort and plan my trip to Nevada if I still want to do it by then.
 
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