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Should I go to a brothel to get some experience?

Should I go to a brothel to get some experience?

  • Yeah you’ll get some practice and won’t be as worried about being inexperienced

    Votes: 13 48.1%
  • No its a waste of money because it isn’t real and won’t help you that much in the end

    Votes: 15 55.6%

  • Total voters
    27

superstorm250

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I made this post and poll because I’m 26, 3 months away from turning 27 and I have hardly any experience with dating or sex. I’ve only been on 1 date and that was also the only time I’ve ever had sex or even kissed anyone, and that happened 5 years ago. Lately I’ve been thinking more about going to a brothel just to get some more experience because one of the main things that’s holding me back is that I feel like most girls are gonna be turned off by the fact that I’m so inexperienced for my age and will lose interest in me once they find out. I live in southern California, so I’m not too far away from Nevada where brothels are legal and state regulated so that’s where I would go.

One of the brothels there actually has some pretty hot girls in their lineup, and there’s one who stood out to me because one of her specialties is helping inexperienced guys by giving them honest feedback on what to do and what not to. She’ll also go on a practice date with you so that you’ll also leave with an idea of what to do when you’re on a date as well. But I’m not set on doing this because I feel like it might not help me that much in the end, and none of it is real after all. So I wouldn’t be doing much of anything that would actually help with sharpening my game since I would be guaranteed to close no matter what happens since I’m paying her. It also does nothing to help solve the issue of having no relationship experience since that will never result in a relationship forming and I feel like I could get practice dates for free by just going on dating apps. What would you guys do if you were me?
 

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You don't want a relationship.

Repeat after me.

You don't want a relationship.

Wanting a relationship is inherently highly feminine. Your job is to have sex, and with as many women as possible.

My advice: smash as many whöres as you can afford to, and in as short a timeframe as possible. Make sure they're younger than you (I would suggest no older than 23) and make sure they're as hot as is available. If you can read honest, impartial reviews from other punters first that would be a huge help, as A LOT of working girls HATE their job and just want you out the door as quickly as possible. I'm not trying to discourage you here; I'm just warning you what to expect.

Upside to whöring: you quickly discover what works for you sexually. You might surprise yourself and find yourself being quite rough and manly and not at all "romantic" or gentle with them. This is good practice for real girls, who you should fvck in the exact same way. You'll also be eager to explore sexual taboos like anal, being rimmed, fisting a girl's insides out and even pi$$ing down a girl's throat; all tastes are catered for, even if you do have to shop around and do your homework for more exotic requests - not to mention pay more.

After successfully whöring, you tend to not give a shìt if a girl you see in the street is hot, and you'll look her square in the eye and think "I just fvcked a hotter girl than you half an hour ago" and laugh to yourself. All that feminine "mystique"?

Gone.

All women are for sale.


Now one thing whöring will not do is feed your ego. For that, you need to attract women for free, and without any apparent effort. To do this, you must eat clean, lift heavy and stack cash. You must also deliberately escape your comfort zone and seek out social situations where you might have been shy/insecure before, and push yourself to be brazen in your interactions, without becoming a clown.

But overall, and if you can afford it? Yes, whöring helps. Women lose all their mystery, and that can only be a good thing.

WARNING: Do NOT catch EAS (Emotional Attachment Syndrome - basically oneitis for a hooker). Whöres are VERY good at fooling you, just like normal women (which are called civvies). You pay, you pound her holes, you cvm (preferably on her face) and then you LEAVE and fvck a different girl. This is very important. Make sure to always use protection (it isn't necessary for blöwjobs, so if a girl insists on covering you up before slobbering your dìck, you didn't do your homework...) and be aware of the money you're spending. Never go above your limit, as whöring is addictive like drugs or gambling.

Good luck and let us know how it goes.
 

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You don't want a relationship.

Repeat after me.

You don't want a relationship.

Wanting a relationship is inherently highly feminine. Your job is to have sex, and with as many women as possible.

My advice: smash as many whöres as you can afford to, and in as short a timeframe as possible. Make sure they're younger than you (I would suggest no older than 23) and make sure they're as hot as is available. If you can read honest, impartial reviews from other punters first that would be a huge help, as A LOT of working girls HATE their job and just want you out the door as quickly as possible. I'm not trying to discourage you here; I'm just warning you what to expect.

Upside to whöring: you quickly discover what works for you sexually. You might surprise yourself and find yourself being quite rough and manly and not at all "romantic" or gentle with them. This is good practice for real girls, who you should fvck in the exact same way. You'll also be eager to explore sexual taboos like anal, being rimmed, fisting a girl's insides out and even pi$$ing down a girl's throat; all tastes are catered for, even if you do have to shop around and do your homework for more exotic requests - not to mention pay more.

After successfully whöring, you tend to not give a shìt if a girl you see in the street is hot, and you'll look her square in the eye and think "I just fvcked a hotter girl than you half an hour ago" and laugh to yourself. All that feminine "mystique"?

Gone.

All women are for sale.


Now one thing whöring will not do is feed your ego. For that, you need to attract women for free, and without any apparent effort. To do this, you must eat clean, lift heavy and stack cash. You must also deliberately escape your comfort zone and seek out social situations where you might have been shy/insecure before, and push yourself to be brazen in your interactions, without becoming a clown.

But overall, and if you can afford it? Yes, whöring helps. Women lose all their mystery, and that can only be a good thing.

WARNING: Do NOT catch EAS (Emotional Attachment Syndrome - basically oneitis for a hooker). Whöres are VERY good at fooling you, just like normal women (which are called civvies). You pay, you pound her holes, you cvm (preferably on her face) and then you LEAVE and fvck a different girl. This is very important. Make sure to always use protection (it isn't necessary for blöwjobs, so if a girl insists on covering you up before slobbering your dìck, you didn't do your homework...) and be aware of the money you're spending. Never go above your limit, as whöring is addictive like drugs or gambling.

Good luck and let us know how it goes.
I agree with some of what you said, but other parts of it could easily pass for something an incel wrote. I would only want to do this a couple times at the most just to get some experience so I’m not as worried about my inexperience being a turn off to real girls. I wouldn’t get EAS for a hooker, maybe you missed where I said that I know that none of it is real. If I was to pay for the GF experience from a working girl, I would know going into it that none of it is real and she’s just giving me what I paid for, she’ll probably forget all about me in less than a week after buying her and we would never see each other again after that anyway. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with getting into a relationship, but you just gotta be really careful with who you get into one with because of how dating is these days.
 

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Hell yeah bro visit the ladies. But **** all that feedback **** just go, **** a hoe, and jet out. If you have the money for it, it's a fine hobby. Like my man Visionist said, you'll quickly see how bland other girls are on the street when you just ****ed a girl way hotter than them. It's the easy way to an abundance mentality. You can go back to the same one multiple times if it's good, you can even befriend them. I have some escort friends and they're amazing to party with. Don't fall in love though that **** is stupid. Since I have a girlfriend I'm not going anymore but I honestly miss it. It's like spinning plates except you pay her to leave. Important tip: treat them with respect outside of the actual sex, don't be condescending and they'll like you as a client.
 

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Just remember there are other guys doing the same thing and she has dealt with allot of guys on an industrial level before you meet her. Too public and gross but I paid $60 in some seedy joint and put way too much energy into the session that I got mentally sick the morning after. The 7th heaven high was very short lived and felt like I was in space, lost my frame of reference and then my mind went for a month.
 

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I agree with some of what you said, but other parts of it could easily pass for something an incel wrote. I would only want to do this a couple times at the most just to get some experience so I’m not as worried about my inexperience being a turn off to real girls. I wouldn’t get EAS for a hooker, maybe you missed where I said that I know that none of it is real. If I was to pay for the GF experience from a working girl, I would know going into it that none of it is real and she’s just giving me what I paid for, she’ll probably forget all about me in less than a week after buying her and we would never see each other again after that anyway. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with getting into a relationship, but you just gotta be really careful with who you get into one with because of how dating is these days.
What you wrote sounds like a decent plan bro, don't worry. By the way, fvcking is quite easy, it's kissing/making out well which is the harder part so I would focus on that if I were you. Hell, with all the rust I've gathered by now I almost am you lol.

I don't know what's up with Visionist lately, it's like a different person has taken over his account, he wasn't a black-and-white maniac like this before as far as I could tell.
 

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I don't know what's up with Visionist lately, it's like a different person has taken over his account, he wasn't a black-and-white maniac like this before as far as I could tell.
Quarantine blue balls.
 

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Quarantine blue balls.
lol all right bro then I know, no worries.

You can if you want, but I don’t think it’s strictly necessary. Can fool around with regular chicks. If she notices any awkwardness, just say it’s been a while. A dry spell is forgivable.
Jesus dude, I didn't know you were so comfortable playing with fire Mike. This is a dangerous line to walk.
 

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Spraying pheromones is more helpful for dealing with awkwardness. I haven't tried it in a while, but smell is the most effective. Even Lavender essential oil is calming. Some people say it's placebo but even so, if it works that way, who cares.
 

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You don't want a relationship.

Repeat after me.

You don't want a relationship.

Wanting a relationship is inherently highly feminine. Your job is to have sex, and with as many women as possible.

My advice: smash as many whöres as you can afford to, and in as short a timeframe as possible. Make sure they're younger than you (I would suggest no older than 23) and make sure they're as hot as is available. If you can read honest, impartial reviews from other punters first that would be a huge help, as A LOT of working girls HATE their job and just want you out the door as quickly as possible. I'm not trying to discourage you here; I'm just warning you what to expect.

Upside to whöring: you quickly discover what works for you sexually. You might surprise yourself and find yourself being quite rough and manly and not at all "romantic" or gentle with them. This is good practice for real girls, who you should fvck in the exact same way. You'll also be eager to explore sexual taboos like anal, being rimmed, fisting a girl's insides out and even pi$$ing down a girl's throat; all tastes are catered for, even if you do have to shop around and do your homework for more exotic requests - not to mention pay more.

After successfully whöring, you tend to not give a shìt if a girl you see in the street is hot, and you'll look her square in the eye and think "I just fvcked a hotter girl than you half an hour ago" and laugh to yourself. All that feminine "mystique"?

Gone.

All women are for sale.


Now one thing whöring will not do is feed your ego. For that, you need to attract women for free, and without any apparent effort. To do this, you must eat clean, lift heavy and stack cash. You must also deliberately escape your comfort zone and seek out social situations where you might have been shy/insecure before, and push yourself to be brazen in your interactions, without becoming a clown.

But overall, and if you can afford it? Yes, whöring helps. Women lose all their mystery, and that can only be a good thing.

WARNING: Do NOT catch EAS (Emotional Attachment Syndrome - basically oneitis for a hooker). Whöres are VERY good at fooling you, just like normal women (which are called civvies). You pay, you pound her holes, you cvm (preferably on her face) and then you LEAVE and fvck a different girl. This is very important. Make sure to always use protection (it isn't necessary for blöwjobs, so if a girl insists on covering you up before slobbering your dìck, you didn't do your homework...) and be aware of the money you're spending. Never go above your limit, as whöring is addictive like drugs or gambling.

Good luck and let us know how it goes.
+1 agreed; voted yes.
 

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I made this post and poll because I’m 26, 3 months away from turning 27 and I have hardly any experience with dating or sex. I’ve only been on 1 date and that was also the only time I’ve ever had sex or even kissed anyone, and that happened 5 years ago. Lately I’ve been thinking more about going to a brothel just to get some more experience because one of the main things that’s holding me back is that I feel like most girls are gonna be turned off by the fact that I’m so inexperienced for my age and will lose interest in me once they find out. I live in southern California, so I’m not too far away from Nevada where brothels are legal and state regulated so that’s where I would go.

One of the brothels there actually has some pretty hot girls in their lineup, and there’s one who stood out to me because one of her specialties is helping inexperienced guys by giving them honest feedback on what to do and what not to. She’ll also go on a practice date with you so that you’ll also leave with an idea of what to do when you’re on a date as well. But I’m not set on doing this because I feel like it might not help me that much in the end, and none of it is real after all. So I wouldn’t be doing much of anything that would actually help with sharpening my game since I would be guaranteed to close no matter what happens since I’m paying her. It also does nothing to help solve the issue of having no relationship experience since that will never result in a relationship forming and I feel like I could get practice dates for free by just going on dating apps. What would you guys do if you were me?
No. Too much of a risk of catching an STI/STD.
 

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Important tip: treat them with respect outside of the actual sex, don't be condescending and they'll like you as a client.
I don’t think they will like him or dislike him. We are talking about chicks who work in a brothel. They are pros at this and all they care about is getting the cash. The only thing that might affect how much they want to see him again is how big of a tip he leaves.

Ultimately OP won’t learn anything about seduction from this experience. I also agree there is the risk of STDs. If his goal is to fulfill wild sex fantasies, by all means go for it. But it sounds like his goal is to learn how to get better with women.
 

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Use lemons to make lemonade. Use OLD and see how many cougars/milfs you can attract at wanting to deflower an inexperienced younger guy. Maybe even just state that you are a virgin in your profile but would like to meet women or a woman that will show you the ropes. What do you have to lose? Your main objective is to just get good at sex so just look for gals that can pass the boner test. Forget trying to hold out for 8-9s. My$.02
 

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I don’t think they will like him or dislike him. We are talking about chicks who work in a brothel. They are pros at this and all they care about is getting the cash. The only thing that might affect how much they want to see him again is how big of a tip he leaves.

Ultimately OP won’t learn anything about seduction from this experience. I also agree there is the risk of STDs. If his goal is to fulfill wild sex fantasies, by all means go for it. But it sounds like his goal is to learn how to get better with women.
I thought he just wanted to learn how to bang properly. STD's can legit happen with everyone, any house of decent standing will have the girls take STD's tests very regularly. You obviously won't get better with women when visiting a *****house but it might kill his desperation (if its there).
 

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I've fvcked over forty whöres; only had one STD. Mononucleosis, or Kiss Disease as it's called here. Basically a long, high fever.

Yes, I let whöres suck my tongue. I don't care.

Those civvies you're getting with are having bareback sex with fvck knows how many guys. Hookers are generally cleaner than civvies.
 
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