Should I go out with her again?

[stuka1939]

I went out with this chick (whom I did not want to go with in the first place) but I figured what the hell. She is not a pig, but she is not that cute. (about a 5-5.5). We went out for drinks and I ended up hooking up with her in her car.


I think this girl really likes me, while I am just thinking with the other head.

I guess I don't want to go out with her again because I feel I am playing with her emotions (just using her)

What should I do?

 

[Axcell]

I, personally, would not go out with her. I have been faced with this situation before, and I made a good choice by deciding not to take things further.
This site does not teach you how to play with a woman's heart, but to find a girl who you like, and helps ensure you get her and keep her. Key words: A girl you actually like.

Go out there and find a girl who you would actually want to be with and who you actually like. She doesn't need to be an HB9, however, it should be somebody who will not make you have thoughts such as, "I feel I am just playing her" etc.

Not the best advice I have given, but it's to the point. It's all your choice, I wouldn't want to direct a guy to go out with a girl if he is just in it for the free action, especially if he doesn't even have much feelings for her. A DJ, in my view, does not do that.

 

[stuka1939]

Yea, glad you agree with me.


My one friend was like: "You have to call her and let her know that then."

I was like,,,,I went out with her once, I don't owe her an explanation.

 

[The Bat]

If you just want sex out of her, then yes go out with her.

If you want more than sex, then obviously don't go out with her because you don't like her.

I'm assuming you do want sex, otherwise you wouldn't have hooked up in the car. Or maybe alcohol played a part in the hookup?

Anyway, go with your gut feeling, man. Don't over-analyze things.