"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I go or no?

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Went on myspace, hit up this chick I meant threw a friend. The story goes.. I was trying to hook up with her friend, but she turned me down. But in the process I meant this chick.. who showed a little sign of intrest. Anyway, I hit her up.. ask her if she is doing anything cause I was gonna see if she wanted to hang out. She said she had plans and is going to the movies tonight with her chick friend.. but said I could come if I wanted. Not sure if I should go... 3rd wheel and all. I really don't wanna fall into the friendzone with this one.

Should I go or no?And if not, then how can I decline without seeming too much like an *******. I can't make up an excuse like "oh I have plans" cause I already told her I didn't have any.... soo?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't worry about being an *******. Do you want to go or not? Looks like a friends thing, tho. If you wanna get together with her, but not as a friend, call back, and suggest something else, another day, just the two of you.
 
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You "meant" a chick? WTF?
 
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I mean't "met".. lol I suck at typing.

Anyway.. I took Tom's advice. Told her not tonight, maybe another time just me and her. Hopefully she is down to hang out tomorrow, or next week..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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