"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This woman posted in a local for sale forum about how her husband threw her out and she is whining and asking for free stuff. My reply

"Be nicer to the next guy so this doesn't happen again"

Oh man I think about 20 women want my head on a stick :crackup: :crackup: They are calling me an abuser, telling me to F off, etc. etc. etc.

Should I go missing, I just wanted to tell you guys why :crackup:

It's too damn fun sometimes to get women all frazzled...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When people respond like that, they are fearing the words in their own head more than anything you said.

Look at what you said and then what you are being accused of.

They are all but unrelated.

But yeah, keep your head down for a bit.
 
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The are still babbling about me. Had to block one. Tictac I hear ya I better go hide in a cave. Ruler you are so right. And you are a lucky man you got your whole adult life to use your red pill knowledge. It didn't fully hit me till late 30s.
 

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You should be okay. I don't think they can track you down and get you fired as is sometimes the case when you make a truthful observation. At least I don't think so :woo:.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stagger Lee said:
You should be okay. I don't think they can track you down and get you fired as is sometimes the case when you make a truthful observation. At least I don't think so :woo:.
I agree. What I said was mild in comparison to most trash posted on the Internet from one person about another. You can get sued and collect money if you defame someone's character and they can prove you did and prove it caused them financial or other damage. This woman was asking for free cr@p so good luck to her with that one! :crackup: If she started sh|t with me over saying "be nicer next time" I would eat her in court and eat her free lawyer for desert, if she could even find one. Obviously she can't afford one or she wouldn't be asking for free stuff!

I just think it's insane how easily women get all riled up over such comments, and how they bond together to defend each other too. In woman vs woman it's every woman for herself but in woman vs man it becomes all women vs one man. lmao "You go girl!!" lmfao
 

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Tictac said:
Entitlement runs deep in a whole bunch of (most) women lefty. Best to smile about it in silence.

You getting the joke is more important than you telling it.
You are right about that!
 

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logicallefty said:
I just think it's insane how easily women get all riled up over such comments, and how they bond together to defend each other too. In woman vs woman it's every woman for herself but in woman vs man it becomes all women vs one man. lmao "You go girl!!" lmfao
It's exactly how most identity groups operate-It's my group vs "them" (men). No individual/personal responsibility or accountability is accepted by women. When one female is criticized by one of "them", the whole gang forms a mob and attacks. And how can you criticize this gang behavior either? That would be "sexist" to criticize a whole group's behavior for sure lol. Plus there is a double standard there. If men band together, it's ok to attack the group.

It's a highly effective tactic used over and over. I wished there was some way to invalidate this gang behavior and break it up. I'm not swayed by gangs or labeling, but I'm just one person.
 
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