Hey all!
I'd appreciate your opinion on my situation, but first off I'll give you some quick backround info.
About a year ago I made the decision to clean up my wussy nice guy act up because quite simply I hadnt got a girl in 2years. Nope, you heard that right, even Ugly McObese didn't have the hots for me.
First of all, I began to change my attitude. I have lots of talents so I basically started responding to compliments with ****iness rather than modesty and even the embarassment I had previously. I now basically flaunt what I have and have realised the amount of progress I have made with females in general.
Okay, so to the point. I've had my eye on two girls specifically and cudn't pluck up the courage to strike up conversation. So I put myself out there- I joined 2 clubs in the school and became an immediate hit with the girls, even if they are only 6s and 7s. I got to know her immediate friend more so that I could subtly enter their 'group'.
Now I'm basically at the stage where I think she sees me as 'a cool new friend'. I think theres interest but I'm just not sure if there is enough.
Is it the right time to ask her out for a casual date? OR should I keep at this, my original target for a date was pre-2006 but doesn't really seem feasible anymore.
Any comments, be brutal if you wish.
I'd appreciate your opinion on my situation, but first off I'll give you some quick backround info.
About a year ago I made the decision to clean up my wussy nice guy act up because quite simply I hadnt got a girl in 2years. Nope, you heard that right, even Ugly McObese didn't have the hots for me.
First of all, I began to change my attitude. I have lots of talents so I basically started responding to compliments with ****iness rather than modesty and even the embarassment I had previously. I now basically flaunt what I have and have realised the amount of progress I have made with females in general.
Okay, so to the point. I've had my eye on two girls specifically and cudn't pluck up the courage to strike up conversation. So I put myself out there- I joined 2 clubs in the school and became an immediate hit with the girls, even if they are only 6s and 7s. I got to know her immediate friend more so that I could subtly enter their 'group'.
Now I'm basically at the stage where I think she sees me as 'a cool new friend'. I think theres interest but I'm just not sure if there is enough.
Is it the right time to ask her out for a casual date? OR should I keep at this, my original target for a date was pre-2006 but doesn't really seem feasible anymore.
Any comments, be brutal if you wish.
