"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should I go for it?

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aldaris said:
you are too young to be dating. with all the bumping of this post you have done you are lost. by now i have probably banged this dirty hor and forgotten her email address. she is a hor. treat her as such or move on. worshipping hors only makes you lose all credibility.

kiss = keep it simple stupid
bang the dang hor! every moment that you are not banging her the rest of us are passing on our std's to her.
lol....

well this weekend i've been home and i havent talked to her....but her away message on aim (lol i know) has said shes at the frat where this other guy is for all the nights.....w.tf?


when i get back, im not gonna go out of my way to be nice or anything like i normally am to girls i like...**** her, is she wants me, she can earn me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why are you bumping this thread?

all you had to do was contact her to ask her out. You had like a week.

Now the stalker dude is getting a BJ.
 

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im bumping it for the new **** i posted...theres more to the thread than the original post
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Andromax said:
why are you bumping this thread?

all you had to do was contact her to ask her out. You had like a week.

Now the stalker dude is getting a BJ.
Hahaha...hi-five stalker man. See what stalking gets you? Take some lessons!

**** her. Simply said. Honestly, if she wants to be your g/f and has a problem ****ing after a drunk night, she will say so. If she says she regrets that night of drunken sex, she is a liar. She just doesn't want YOU to think she is easy. Many women like sex just as much as men, and want it to be just as meaningless...
 
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