"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Should I go for it?

BluEyes

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Aight. I don't normally ask for advice on trivial **** like this, but I don't wanna blow this chance. I have a gf, and I'm also seeing another chick across town, so it's not one of those retarded things. I just want some advice from peeps who are good at reading initial IL.

Situation: It's in class. There's a total hb9 thats in the class as well, she's one of those popular, cool girls who participates in all the school events. What IL is there if she keeps looking back at me, like if I move around or something, or do something on my desk, she'll sneak a peek at whatever I'm doing. And whenever I look at her(i can't help it...she's eye candy), she looks at me. She's also left her group of friends acouple times to come 'work' at the desk beside me(it's empty). I've negged her afew times over the semester, so there's abit of rapport there as well. Like I don't really know her yet, but I can talk to her comfortably. Today, as we were standing up at the door waiting to leave, she gets all into my personal space, like leaning over me to check stuff on the wall, standing beside me, and talking into air as if wanting me to pick up on it.
The thing is...she has a boyfriend.

I'm just interested in tappin that ****, and see what happens from there.

Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If I were you I would've made the move awhile ago.. it's high school buddy have some fun.
 

BluEyes

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Yeah, I was going to go for it acouple months back but realized she had a boyfriend. They've been going out for a year now, so they're pretty solid. Mabye she's getting bored ;)

I'll go for it tomorrow or wednesday, and post a 'FR' here.
 

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Always go for it, NO REGRETS!! it's better to wake up in the morning thinking"Damn I got myself into some crazy ****!" or "That didn't work out the way I thought it would." Instead of"What a loser I am I wish I had...." Also we are too young to be having really monogomas relationships so FUUCCKK THE BF. BF just means "How bad do you want this biitch?"
 

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Pretty stoked. I always feel like a ****in fag posting stuff like this here, but whatever.

Today, she tried to test me or some ****...She turned around to talk to me at one point..went something like "Hey, I heard Kyle(another dude in class, one of her friends) wants to date you." , just responded "Oh ya? I heard you want to date me too. [pause] Are you blushing?" She started laughing and stuff, playing with her hair etc.

Went on for afew minutes talking, negging, c&f, etc..After class, started talking to her for abit...Gonna hang out with her tomorrow afternoon. Was expectin to be ****blocked by her friends, since she has a boyfriend, but they were pretty cool about it.

Outrageous man. She's a fox, so it should be pretty fun messing around with her. I'll tell you guys how it goes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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