"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I go for it?

BluEyes

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Aight. I don't normally ask for advice on trivial **** like this, but I don't wanna blow this chance. I have a gf, and I'm also seeing another chick across town, so it's not one of those retarded things. I just want some advice from peeps who are good at reading initial IL.

Situation: It's in class. There's a total hb9 thats in the class as well, she's one of those popular, cool girls who participates in all the school events. What IL is there if she keeps looking back at me, like if I move around or something, or do something on my desk, she'll sneak a peek at whatever I'm doing. And whenever I look at her(i can't help it...she's eye candy), she looks at me. She's also left her group of friends acouple times to come 'work' at the desk beside me(it's empty). I've negged her afew times over the semester, so there's abit of rapport there as well. Like I don't really know her yet, but I can talk to her comfortably. Today, as we were standing up at the door waiting to leave, she gets all into my personal space, like leaning over me to check stuff on the wall, standing beside me, and talking into air as if wanting me to pick up on it.
The thing is...she has a boyfriend.

I'm just interested in tappin that ****, and see what happens from there.

Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If I were you I would've made the move awhile ago.. it's high school buddy have some fun.
 

BluEyes

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Yeah, I was going to go for it acouple months back but realized she had a boyfriend. They've been going out for a year now, so they're pretty solid. Mabye she's getting bored ;)

I'll go for it tomorrow or wednesday, and post a 'FR' here.
 

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Always go for it, NO REGRETS!! it's better to wake up in the morning thinking"Damn I got myself into some crazy ****!" or "That didn't work out the way I thought it would." Instead of"What a loser I am I wish I had...." Also we are too young to be having really monogomas relationships so FUUCCKK THE BF. BF just means "How bad do you want this biitch?"
 

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Pretty stoked. I always feel like a ****in fag posting stuff like this here, but whatever.

Today, she tried to test me or some ****...She turned around to talk to me at one point..went something like "Hey, I heard Kyle(another dude in class, one of her friends) wants to date you." , just responded "Oh ya? I heard you want to date me too. [pause] Are you blushing?" She started laughing and stuff, playing with her hair etc.

Went on for afew minutes talking, negging, c&f, etc..After class, started talking to her for abit...Gonna hang out with her tomorrow afternoon. Was expectin to be ****blocked by her friends, since she has a boyfriend, but they were pretty cool about it.

Outrageous man. She's a fox, so it should be pretty fun messing around with her. I'll tell you guys how it goes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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