"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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should I go for it?plz answer

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should I go for it?plz answer c'mon im waiting

A girl I've known for some time said that she was going with her male friend to a concert,he asked her, she said she didn't want to go at first but than she changed her mind,as she didn't have anything to do, he said he won the tickets(BS?) ,it's a Mory Kante concert. Is this ******** that she wants me to ask her out or what?Now I know I sould have asked her out (IDIOT!!!!!) before but does it matter? She's a shy girl but seems to like me.We flirt a little, lots of eye contact,she likes to talk to me... I'm older than her and the guy,1 year.

Should I get her #. Help an AFC friend.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need more info. How long have you known her ? If you've known her a long time and never done anything to game her, she's probably already lost interest. Its imperative to go after her right after meeting her so she doesnt slip u into the friendzone w/o u knowing it.

When you say you flirt, what exactly gets done ? Eye contact........how long does she hold it for ? Does she smile at you and not look away ? Does she touch you a lot ?

My general rule of thumb is I dont ask out girls that dont give me obvious interest level signs. Because 90% aren't interested once u do ask them for their #.
 

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I've known her for 6 months but I see her about once in 2 weeks for 10 min. She holds eye contact the whole time we talk. She smiles a lot and is in a good mood when we talk, we tease eachother... When I am working out(it's in a gym) she starts convo about 50% of the time. I caught her once (2 onths ago) looking at my ass.


I'll ask her I dont care if I get blown off. Atleast I'll prove something to myself. But I got more questions. When I ask the # and she says she's seeing someone I think I'll say-"I want to have coffee with you not marry you" Is that OK?
Is she suggests she's taken how should I proceed?
 
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fi fiOF OIJF QOIJDF aIij oiJ A oaiIJ oia?

translation:

Anybody?
 

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ZZzzzzZZZZZzzzzZZz.............

Also what's the deal when a girl asks you your sign? She wanted to guess mine.


Also I think I have more chance than the other guy if you think I waited for too long. She sees him for the last year every day(her classmate) and he asked her out now, I see her 1 in 2 weeks.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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