Should I go AFC or PUA with this new problem?

[Healer]

So I was supposed to go to this girls house that Im seeing tonight, and she tells me to call her an hour or two later because she is meeting a friend of hers (a guy) that just came back from a long trip to thailand.

Should I,

A). Go AFC on her and call her back like she wants me to. I know I will get laid tonight if I do.

or

B). Not call her back, and never call her again for breaking plans.

 

[ThugLove]

I would not call her back tonight.........
let her call you
when she does, tell her you have made other plans

Next time you two are supposed to kick it
she wont be so quick to break plans

holla

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by ThugLove
I would not call her back tonight.........
let her call you
when she does, tell her you have made other plans

Next time you two are supposed to kick it
she wont be so quick to break plans

holla

Just make sure that you are calm and collected as if nothing has happened. Make sure she understands that you allowed her to share in your life and that life moves on without her...

 

[TesuqueRed]

Well, first, do you want to get laid tonight?

Otherwise--call, but not at the specified time. Instead, what would you be doing if she wasn't there? Out having fun? Go do that. Call later in the middle of it.

Reason: what were you expected to do--?? Put your life on hold and wait to call as directed--??? This causes women to despise AFCs for doing just that.

So, go live your life, do something fun and exciting. Maybe she can join in if she's well behaved.

And her "call back in an hour or two" let's you off the hook---you're free to do what you want with your time. Fvck that, you were free to do what you want with your time before she uttered those words!

And if she busts you on it? It's a test. Don't bite. She had a "maybe" thing offered, you got definite offers somewhere else.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Just a guess but if you fall for the call me back in an hour scam, then your already acting AFC with this byatch. Best thing to do in that situation is say, "you have my #, call me back." Then when she calls don't answer and go out and do your own thing. She'll wonder about what you did and why you didn't answer your phone when you call her back the next day.


And how are you so sure that you were going to get laid by her? Have you guys slept together yet?? Don't assume anything dood.



PIMP

 

[squirrels]

She broke the date. Go find something else to do...hang out with some friends, meet another girl, go drinking/bowling/whatever, go get some food, go shopping, do laundry...SOMETHING. Just be busy. If she really wants to hook up, she'll call you. I like the idea of telling her, "just call me when you're done whatever it is you have to do...on my cell". That way, you still have the option if she ends up being TRULY hot for it that night, or you can just blow her off if not.

Either way, she broke the date, it's HER responsibility to call YOU and arrange to see you...that is, if she understands how valuable you are. If not...well, tough nuggets for her.