"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should i go 4-split?

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For all chest presses: wide grip as said above, arch your back and make sure at the bottom of the negative you're feeling your pecs stretch ..

More words of wisdom from MOM as concerns ROM: keep it in the pec-stretching zone and you should be fine. :yes:

Also, do triceps first if you have trouble with them. Your core tricep workout should include skullcrushers, close grip bench and reverse grip bench along with dips of course.

I'd recommend dropping flat bench and swapping for incline/decline as semag advised, hits your chest better and more easily, and is safer.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm surprised about the tight reccomended ROM for bench presses... I know its' logical and all, but i've never seen anyone do them like that.
 

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Originally posted by TheRelic
I'm surprised about the tight reccomended ROM for bench presses... I know its' logical and all, but i've never seen anyone do them like that.
Benching tends to be an ego exercise anyway, so I'm not surprised..
 

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^ And therein lies the answer.

Next chest day i'm using that form.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
2-day split, unless you're superhuman!

Monday - Back, Triceps, Chest, Shoulders
Wednesday - Quads, Calves, Hamstrings, Biceps, Forearms.
Friday - as Monday
Monday - as Wednesday
etc ..

(yes you get the weekend off!)


I have a screwy schedule with work and softball games. (softball right after work on tues and thurs and i can't workout every other friday)

Is this a bad idea?

Week 1
Monday - chest, tris, shoulders
Wednesday - legs, abs
Friday - back, biceps

Week 2
Monday - chest, tris, shoulders
Wednesday - legs, abs
Friday - off

Week 3
Mon - back, biceps
Wed - chest, tris, shoulders
Fri - legs, abs

(push other days back because of the the missed day)

OR

i could workout on thursday instead of friday on the week i can't on friday and workout 2 days in a row.. but i thought you weren't supposed to do that...?
 

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Mon - Wed - Fri
then Sun - Tue - Thu
then Mon - Wed - Fri
then Sun - Tue - Thu

etc .. is that okay?
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Mon - Wed - Fri
then Sun - Tue - Thu
then Mon - Wed - Fri
then Sun - Tue - Thu

etc .. is that okay?


I can't do weekends either. Guess I shoulda said that :(
 

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Hrm.

Stick with the split you originally posted then - there was nothing wrong with it, just your gains might be a bit slower, that's all.
 

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Originally posted by TheRelic
I'm surprised about the tight reccomended ROM for bench presses... I know its' logical and all, but i've never seen anyone do them like that.
It's not something you'll see in normal gyms, but a lot of pros use this.

I think Sergio Olivia started it, other guys like Arnold / Lou Ferrigno picked it up. If you watch Pumping Iron, you will see Lou Ferrigno do bench pressing in this way.

Recently I watched Ronnie Coleman's Price of Redemption video, and he does his incline & flat presses, as well as his shoulder presses with this limited range of motion.

But like Warboss said, benching is an ego exercise so you wont see many people do it like this, since they'd rather use triceps and lift bigger loads.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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