"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey guys Im new to this forum, i was wondering if i should give up chasing my ex gf?

Long story short:
Her and I dated for over a year, i broke up with her for differences that i felt we had. When we broke up, i was pretty cold because i filled with resentment towards her due to our differences.

Overall our relationship was pretty good, we had many fun times/memories and sex was amazing.

So i decided to try again, since we shared good times together. We've been hanging out for the last few months, and at first she seemed very interested, but slowly it died down. we still kiss and we recently had sex.

She recently told me, that she feels that what happened to our relationship will happen again and she doesnt want to get back with me. And lately she'll be distant, if i dont contact her within a 3-4 days she'll usually try and contact me. I was wondering if i should just give up and move on or continue trying a different way?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You shouldn't be chasing her anyway. It sounds like the relationship has run its tole to me.

Just move on and find a fresh girl.
 
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Unfortunately adam is right.

Everything ends buddy - just accept that and pick up other chicks.
 
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Also how old are you? And do you even see her? Aside from when you guys had sex or kissed?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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spidey10 said:
Hey guys Im new to this forum, i was wondering if i should give up chasing my ex gf?

Long story short:
Her and I dated for over a year, i broke up with her for differences that i felt we had. When we broke up, i was pretty cold because i filled with resentment towards her due to our differences.

Overall our relationship was pretty good, we had many fun times/memories and sex was amazing.

So i decided to try again, since we shared good times together. We've been hanging out for the last few months, and at first she seemed very interested, but slowly it died down. we still kiss and we recently had sex.

She recently told me, that she feels that what happened to our relationship will happen again and she doesnt want to get back with me. And lately she'll be distant, if i dont contact her within a 3-4 days she'll usually try and contact me. I was wondering if i should just give up and move on or continue trying a different way?
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ABORT mission. I had the EXACT, I repeat, EXACT same situation with an ex which is how I learned this one the hard way. Same words, same behaviors, same actions, same everything. You will not get back together but she will continue to contact you and give you mixed messages, effectively keeping you on the line. You will be frustrated and confused if you aren't already. Your mind will be a wreck. Don't be surprised if she is seeing other guys too.

My advice is just to call it a day and go no contact. You were happy before you met her right? Then you will be happy again. Actually, you have the ability to be happy now but your mind/ego is head f*cking you into believing you can't be. Work on yourself and go bang other chicks. Nothing in life is permanent. Embrace that fact and be at peace with it.

chase AND ex-gf should never be in the same sentence. Good Luck.
 
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