"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey guys Im new to this forum, i was wondering if i should give up chasing my ex gf?

Long story short:
Her and I dated for over a year, i broke up with her for differences that i felt we had. When we broke up, i was pretty cold because i filled with resentment towards her due to our differences.

Overall our relationship was pretty good, we had many fun times/memories and sex was amazing.

So i decided to try again, since we shared good times together. We've been hanging out for the last few months, and at first she seemed very interested, but slowly it died down. we still kiss and we recently had sex.

She recently told me, that she feels that what happened to our relationship will happen again and she doesnt want to get back with me. And lately she'll be distant, if i dont contact her within a 3-4 days she'll usually try and contact me. I was wondering if i should just give up and move on or continue trying a different way?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You shouldn't be chasing her anyway. It sounds like the relationship has run its tole to me.

Just move on and find a fresh girl.
 
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Unfortunately adam is right.

Everything ends buddy - just accept that and pick up other chicks.
 
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Also how old are you? And do you even see her? Aside from when you guys had sex or kissed?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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spidey10 said:
Hey guys Im new to this forum, i was wondering if i should give up chasing my ex gf?

Long story short:
Her and I dated for over a year, i broke up with her for differences that i felt we had. When we broke up, i was pretty cold because i filled with resentment towards her due to our differences.

Overall our relationship was pretty good, we had many fun times/memories and sex was amazing.

So i decided to try again, since we shared good times together. We've been hanging out for the last few months, and at first she seemed very interested, but slowly it died down. we still kiss and we recently had sex.

She recently told me, that she feels that what happened to our relationship will happen again and she doesnt want to get back with me. And lately she'll be distant, if i dont contact her within a 3-4 days she'll usually try and contact me. I was wondering if i should just give up and move on or continue trying a different way?
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ABORT mission. I had the EXACT, I repeat, EXACT same situation with an ex which is how I learned this one the hard way. Same words, same behaviors, same actions, same everything. You will not get back together but she will continue to contact you and give you mixed messages, effectively keeping you on the line. You will be frustrated and confused if you aren't already. Your mind will be a wreck. Don't be surprised if she is seeing other guys too.

My advice is just to call it a day and go no contact. You were happy before you met her right? Then you will be happy again. Actually, you have the ability to be happy now but your mind/ego is head f*cking you into believing you can't be. Work on yourself and go bang other chicks. Nothing in life is permanent. Embrace that fact and be at peace with it.

chase AND ex-gf should never be in the same sentence. Good Luck.
 
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