Should I give up on her?

[thekcguyme]

Okay so I started dating this girl that I have know for several months. Things were awesome for 3 weeks. The sex was mind blowing and had a lot of fun. Then one day out of the blue she tells me that she still has feeling for her ex and she doesn't want to hurt me. She tells me that the past few weeks were amazing. A few days go by and we start messing around again. She tells me that she doesn't want a relationship after a couple days. She says she has a lot of things to think about and to get past. She is pregnant at the moment too which I think could be playing a big part in her emotions.

She texts me on a regular basis. As soon as she wakes up in the morning she sends me texts. I told her that I should probably just move on and she tells me no I just need to figure things out first. It always seems like she has a new excuse as to why we aren't together.

I think she is an amazing girl and always have a good time with her, but I'm not sure If I should just give up or what. What should I do?

 

[djthiago1]

You're rebound. She's PREGGO!

 

[GS750]

You're rebound. She's PREGGO!

Yep. She's told you she's still got feelings for the ex so...expect to be used. If you don't mind be used, bang away.

 

[Married Buried]

Sounds like you are thinking of staying with her through having the kid...maybe help raise it? That has got to be the worse possible thing any man could do. If it's not your kid kick her to the curb.

 

[mikey2012]

You going be a cuckold?
At least you can go bareback without having to worry if she'll get pregnant.

 

[thekcguyme]

The sex stopped cause she said it was clouding her thinking about what she wants. She days she just wants to be friends for now. What really throws me off is that she says she is extremely attractive to me. I've dated alot of women and have never been so confused.

 

[Thorninmyside]

She is pregnant at the moment too which I think could be playing a big part in her emotions.

Dude! You make it sound like a 24 hour bug or that time of the month.

Half of her ex is growing inside her! That kid is for life. Why deliberately be in a relationship tied so closely to the other dude? She's already bouncing between the two of you emotionally and probably physically.

 

[thekcguyme]

Well ive actually know her for awhile and like her alot and her kids. Ive dated alot of girls over the years and never had a connection like with. I Know her emotions are all over the place from the increase in hormones. So its pretty much a lose lose for me. Thanks guys.