"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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should i get a loft bed?

garruk

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does anyone here have a loft bed?

im in a college and im thinking about getting one for my apartment because my room is kinda small.


for those who have loft beds: does it mess with your sex life?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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5string

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I had one in a cabin up in the mountains. Loved it. Heat rises. Remember that. As far as it affecting my sex life.....wasnt having sex anyway as I was married to my 1st wife.
 

Bible_Belt

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I built one in college. Get a futon if you get a loft. The futon is like a sofa that folds down into a bed. I got laid a lot, but always on the futon. Girls are not going to climb up into a loft.
 

horaholic

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Yeah. Thats really great advice for someone saying how their room is too small.:rolleyes:

I recently moved into a small room also. I built a raised frame for my bed so I could store a bunch of stuff underneath, and I got rid of the box spring so its not sitting super high anymore. I have 19 inches high of space underneath it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Drum&Bass

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I have a loft bed as a guest bed. It gets kinda weird when girls have to climb up to get in bed. If you wake up in the night sometimes to use the bathroom it gets annoying climbing up and down the ladder. The biggest issue...CEILING HEIGHT !!!
 
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